There are a lot of couples in the world who treat each other disrespectfully, in a boorish way, and still stay together. They just torture each other, but in the end, having exhausted their heart, soul and body, they part. I believe that one should not endure a bad attitude towards oneself, one should not wait for a partner to change and become different. More attentive, dear, will begin to respect, appreciate, love. Now, if you are everything to him, and he is cold and indifferent, is there any point in fighting for something that does not exist? And, on the contrary, sometimes people do a lot for us, but we, somehow thoughtlessly turn away and leave. Please, if a man does these things for you, hold on to him and don't let him go anywhere!
He is always supportive during hard times and bad days.
We all have bad days when it seems like the world has just collapsed. And it is on such days that the support of a loved one is so needed. Maybe you have depression, someone was rude to you, you have problems at work or some other everyday difficulties. Many things happen in life, and no one can avoid problems. And this is so important when your man puts his reliable shoulder, supports, helps to get back on his feet when you fall. This is not about the fact that he will simply sympathize with you and say shortly: "everything will be fine." Here we are talking about showing compassion, when he sincerely and confidently tells you: “Everything will be fine, I am with you! We will go through this together! " It applies here: "a real friend is known in trouble." Just need to rephrase a little: "a loving man is always there when you have problems."
You can be yourself with him
Each person has its own characteristics and oddities. And sometimes we have to put on a mask of "normality" so that by no means those around us would guess who we really are. We need to meet the expectations of society, because we are so afraid that they will somehow negatively think of us, they will consider us strange, rude, stupid. If, next to a man, you do not want to pretend to be different at all, if you are comfortable and good to be yourself, this says a lot! This means that you have found someone who accepts you with your weirdness, and still loves. "A loving man is the one who saw you drunk, naked, sleeping, without makeup, roaring, talking all kinds of bullshit and who is still with you!" It costs a lot! It allows you to remove the mask of another person, in addition, it creates a safe space around you where you are very comfortable doing it! By the way, having a healthy relationship and being real with your partner are two parts of one whole.
He's not trying to change you
Very often you can hear from men, and even from women, that their loved one is, in principle, good, but only if he changed something in himself. But it is worth understanding that a person cannot be perfect, well, there are no ideal people in this world! And it is impossible to change someone, even if you really want to. Even if your partner changes, you will always want to change something else about him. There are simply people who do not want to change anything in their loved one. Yes, and that is love. If a man is not trying to change you, you should definitely hold on to him, and not let go of anything. And you know what? With such a number you yourself will begin to change, change yourself for the better, become more interesting.
If a man does these things for you, then he is worthy of your attention, and he should not be overlooked!
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