Many women say that meeting a good man is difficult. And some even believe that such, in principle, do not exist! Many mothers put such an opinion in their daughters' heads since childhood, and poor girls are then overly cautious and after each date torture themselves with questions. “Is he really good?”, “Maybe my mother just didn't trust me?”, “How to understand that I'm not mistaken?” etc. And in every potential groom, they begin to see flaws and shortcomings.
After all, absolutely every person has something good and something bad. The only difference is how a person manifests himself when he needs to cope with his anger, stress or pain. The difference is in this approach.
And, in fact, there are signs that will help a woman determine that they have met a good man!
He listens to you
He does not just listen and, in parallel, advise something, express his point of view. He listens to you, because he understands that you need to speak out! By the way, men do not have such an innate feature, they learn it! But in reality, a man who knows how to listen is much more attractive than a man with cubes on his stomach. Women love with their ears, they just hide when they are listened to, and then begin to maintain a conversation. And, how can you understand that a man is listening to you? He looks you in the eye, he is very attentive and calm. He is not distracted around, on the TV, on the phone. He is entirely with you, here and now! And when you finish your speech, he does an amazing thing! It sums up everything you said. He shows the reaction to your story, he says that he understood you, understood what upset you. This incredible feeling that a woman experiences in such moments actually lifts the man in her eyes!
He expresses his feelings effortlessly
That is, he is not afraid to be vulnerable. This does not mean that he will cry to you at every difficult situation or problem. He just will not keep negative emotions in himself, and silently experience everything. It is very difficult to communicate with such a man, because you generally cannot understand what is happening to him and what is on his mind. A good man will effortlessly show his emotions when he is worried, nervous, worried, afraid. Many men keep everything to themselves, believing that men have no right to show weakness. But this is not a manifestation of weakness, it is openness and trust in your partner! By the way, a man who throws out his emotions at the moment they arise, and does not accumulate everything in himself, then does not frighten with sudden breakdowns!
He knows how to deal with his negative feelings.
He has long known how to overcome the negative emotions that bother him. He doesn't drown the pain with alcohol, he may be running or attending the gym. That is, he finds a healthy outlet for his emotions. This means that he is mature enough to be aware of what is happening to him and to cope on his own, not to the detriment of the relationship.
He accepts himself for who he is and loves you for who you are
He is not pretending with you, he is real, he is confident in himself. He knows he loves you, and you love him. And he is not afraid to be what he is. He is not trying to constantly impress you with something, and you do not have such a need. He tells you that you are beautiful in every way. Now I remembered how one aged man spoke with his son on the phone. It was about the girl's son, and he asked his father for advice about getting married. And the father said - "If you like a girl even in the morning in a sleepy, disheveled and not wearing makeup, then get married." Well, really, everything is correct!
He respects the boundaries you set.
You tell him that you need to be alone, meet with friends, or that you don't want to go to an event. You have a hobby that takes time. And he understands you perfectly and does not go beyond your borders. He is not offended, he honestly tells you that he respects your needs. And that's great. And it is doubly beautiful if you respect its boundaries.
Be happy!!!
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