Remember the movie with Mel Gibson, when his character got a strong electric shock due to hitting the hair dryer in the bath, and he began to read the minds of women. I think sometimes it would not be bad if women could read men's thoughts. After all, it is sometimes so difficult to understand these peculiar and interesting males. They seem to be real from another planet! Moreover, we women also have a completely different mindset, and how can we understand the male mind?
Probably, this is why disappointment, divorces, dissatisfaction with relationships are all around. After all, the main reason that a husband and wife do not understand each other is precisely that they have a different worldview and acceptance of the present! Knowing the specifics of the male understanding of the world, the female half opens the way to understanding men. Well, and what, you have, as always, to take everything in your tender hands!
Even if you ask 5-6 year old children of different genders to tell the same story, you can see that the retelling will be very different, regardless of the identity of the originals. Because since childhood, the way of thinking is different for different sexes! And the point here is not education, but especially the psyche of a woman and a man.
Probably, if the school had a subject on which experienced psychologists set out all the features of male and female relationships, then there would be much less problems in couples. But these are only dreams, and we achieve contact with the opposite sex through mistakes.
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The difference between male and female psyche
For a man, events and external actions are always in the first place, and for a woman, the main thing is emotions and inner world. She will be looking for another diet for weight loss, and he will watch the news of disasters in other countries. The thinking of women is much more directed and narrower than that of men.
A man will not pay attention to a dusty closet and a mountain of unwashed dishes, and a woman will definitely put things in order and wash everything.
Couples should not project their own perceptions of the world onto each other. Because they look at the world from different angles. Women, in order to better understand men, should stop thinking out phrases that men throw without thinking.
For example, upon coming home from work, a man says that he is tired, has a quick dinner and lies down on the sofa in front of the TV. What he really meant was that he was tired at work. And a woman can already turn everything over so that he is tired of her. Men are straightforward, and by saying a phrase, they do not hint at anything. Which, on the contrary, is typical of women. If you want something from a man, say it straight to his forehead, while hinting, it will take a long time! Men do not know how to hint, and do not understand hints.
Women sometimes get angry at the monosyllabic answers of men, start to think something out for themselves, make scandals. Men think that their wives are scandalous out of the blue, and begin to consider their partners hysterical.
Women sometimes even accuse men of secrecy, because due to the monosyllabic nature of men's answers, it seems that they are not saying something. They start asking even more questions, men get angry, and women think that if they are angry, then they hit the spot.
Women want their partners to tell them about love every day, and they can do it several times. If you ask your man about it, then, of course, he will do so. And this already shows love. And yet, if he loves, then once again he will not spread about his problems, so that it does not affect people dear to him. And if you poke your nose, it turns out that you do not believe in the male consistency of your partner.
Male psychology is understandable. Men call all things by their proper names, all colors by their own colors, all numbers by their own numbers. It is we women who are looking for a catch in everything, a hint, and our colors have several shades, and we can call things differently. That's all!
A man saves both time and internal reserves. But you should not pay attention to this, it is better to understand your beloved without unnecessary words, and to look more at his actions. Indeed, for a man about feelings will no longer say words, but they.
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