Sometimes women think that, just yesterday, they graduated from school, but today they look in the mirror and see wrinkles and gray hair in their hair. Not everyone is able to accept their age and enjoy life. But to be upset about the approaching old age is useless. You need to be able to accept any changes in the body with dignity and with a smile. This is the wisdom of a woman at this age.
I understand that no one wants to grow old. But today I will tell you about the rules of an aging woman, looking into the sunset, so to speak. So my dear women, when you get old, stick with them, please. You know, I respect age, but many "old people" are sure that everyone is obliged to them, and sometimes they behave too intrusively with their morals, believing that they are experienced, they have lived life and know everything. Many people believe that children owe them a lot; I raised this topic in one of my previous articles. Many turn into complainers, try to cling to the passing years by any means possible, and grumble with hatred at their aging husbands. Forgive me, but living this way is wrong, so simply impossible. I don’t want to get out here as the smartest one, because, as they say, “eggs do not teach a chicken”. But I know that after years these rules of wisdom will come in handy for me too!
Rules for older women
Do not teach
You can be right a hundred times, but you don't need to teach everyone around. Remember how you reacted in your youth to the instructions of your elders! Did they confidently lead you to the true path? Yes, no, of course. You still did what your heart tells you to do, you did what you thought was right.
Don't try to help
In particular, you should not go in with your help if no one asks you for it. Do not impose your concern, and do not try to protect your loved ones from any scrapes. Just love them, that's enough!
Stop complaining
Do you like quarrelsome old women who sit near the entrance and complain about utility bills, ungrateful grandchildren, a drunken husband? No, of course, we try to be supportive of the grandmothers, but we ourselves are sure that we will not become like them! And for this it is worth remembering that the complaint is from there, from old age. And also forget immediately such phrases as “I am older, and I know better”, “Here I am at your age”, etc.
Don't try to catch up with time
Do what you like. It is not necessary to frantically keep up with the times, study the latest technologies, listen to the news, or study something. Do not be afraid to "lag behind the times", it is better to do what you like the most.
Don't expect gratitude from children
Children don't owe you anything. They did not ask you to give birth to them, to give all your youth, time, funds for their upbringing and formation. Accept help when it is offered, but do not give your children an ultimatum, such as “I have dedicated my life to you, you are obliged to support me / come once a week / call every day”. Calm down and just live, do not forget that your children have their own lives.
Don't waste your last money on rejuvenation
Old age cannot be fooled, it will come anyway and affect your appearance. It may be hard to accept all the changes associated with age, but there is no point in anti-aging treatments. Better spend your money on travel!
Less make-up
Stop staring at yourself in the mirror for a long time and trying to do anti-aging makeup. It is much better if you look elegant, not youthful!
Take care of your man
Yes, men with age can turn from youthful strong handsome men to grumbling old grandfathers. But don't judge your old man. Love, appreciate, do not forget, he remembers you young and full of strength, and until now, looking at you aging, he remembers your young face! Support each other!
Maintain your dignity
It is very important!
Do you know what the wisdom of a woman is? In acceptance! In accepting yourself, your age, circumstances. So just love yourself and enjoy life at any age!
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