Many women are so confident in themselves, their righteousness, their impeccability that sometimes they begin to behave in a relationship, one might say, inadequately. And the problem is that they make a number of mistakes that ruin even a happy marriage. I, of course, will not now say that ladies are exclusively responsible for the happiness in relationships. Much depends on men too. Any relationship should be based on mutual understanding, mutual respect, trust, the ability to listen and hear each other.
But today let's talk specifically about the frequent mistakes of a woman in marriage, which can even lead to a break in her relationship.
She takes her husband for granted
Any relationship requires work on them, and cannot exist when the beloved do nothing to develop them. So, if a woman does not participate at all in this very development, then her relationship is doomed. There are some ladies who never praise their partners for what they do for them. They take everything they have done for granted, but they always notice the mistakes and nag for them. Therefore, men have to constantly go out of their way and try to only please their partner. Is it really so hard to say "thank you" even for the washed dish?
She tries to change her husband
It is impossible to change a person without his desire, or it will not work at all, or the partner will break himself, change, but then everything will come back again. They even say that a man, when he marries, dreams that his wife will never change, and a woman, when she marries, dreams that her husband will definitely change.
You do not need to think that after marriage, your faithful will change, this will not happen. If he was drunk, he will still walk in marriage, only in secret from you. If he drank alcohol, he will be weak in marriage, maybe less often, but more enchanting. If earlier he was a lazy person, then in marriage he will find a thousand excuses not to do anything! Either do not marry the person you plan to change, or accept your partner as he is. If a person wants to change himself, he will do it, but you cannot force him.
She treats him like a son
Excessive caring and guardianship annoys men. Yes, they are pleased when the spouse offers to crumple a sore back, cook delicious borscht or give gifts. But don't go overboard and turn into a mommy! You don't need to perceive your husband as a child, behind whom you need to keep an eye on, you need control and you cannot trust.
She does not give her spouse free time
The husband came home from work, tired, hungry, and his wife came out of the door: you need to throw out the garbage, go to the store together, fix the tap, tomorrow after work you sit with your son, I to a friend, and on weekends I have to go to my mother... Perhaps, after all I have heard, I want to turn around and go to sleep in the entrance, where no one forces anything make. A man can have friends, a hobby, after all, he sometimes wants to stretch his legs after a hard day at work! They didn't marry a slave!
She is sure that her husband is always to blame for everything.
Even her mistakes and mistakes, she turns out so that her husband becomes the culprit. A good, healthy relationship is the result of the work of two people who share the responsibility equally. And, if the wife always blames her husband for everything, then it is worth thinking - either he is really so bad, or it is time for her to change, and admit that from time to time she is wrong.
Tell us in the comments, do you make such mistakes in marriage?
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