We women have a lot of charm, mystery, femininity, there are certain qualities that drive the male sex crazy. And there are, one might say, little things that repel men. It is worth considering before it’s too late, otherwise you risk being left in splendid isolation, dear ladies.
So the things that turn all men off of you
You gossip
Men do not like daily stories about girlfriends, neighbors, they do not want to listen to who has slept with whom, rumors about colleagues from work, scandals and other gossip. Leave them for your girlfriends if you are so fond of chatting about others. As soon as a man realizes that you are a gossip, you will immediately fall low in his eyes. Do you know why? Because the love of gossip is one of the signs of low self-esteem, cowardice and self-doubt. Worthy people do not humiliate others, and do not gossip behind their backs.
You don't give a man any space.
Before a man decided to link his fate with you, he had a life. Yes, he had a life before you, with friends and girlfriends, relatives, work, a certain way of life. And you either accept it along with all this, or just leave. No, well, indeed, for some reason, many people believe that a man should spend time with his beloved 24/7, and completely forget about the fact that each person should have a personal space. It is very unattractive to be intrusive, even if you want to show your sincere feelings to a man in this way, you must give him time for yourself.
You wear too much makeup
Did you know that men don't like it when a woman has a layer of foundation on her face, long cow lashes and clearly tattooed eyebrows? Everything should be in moderation. You should emphasize your features favorably, but don't overdo it. A man wants to see you for real. Take care of yourself, paint - no one forbids you, but feel when it is better to stop.
You can't be yourself
When a person pretends to be who he is not at all, it is very visible. And it doesn't attract at all. Whatever you try to hide your shortcomings, the most important thing is to remain confident in yourself, and to be yourself. Then your flaws won't seem so bad.
You have high self-esteem
Yes, you must be confident in yourself, but self-esteem must be adequate. No need to pretend to be an inaccessible lady, queen, do not show arrogance and narcissism. Nobody likes such people.
You have no goals
You want your man to have ambitions and goals. So, a man also wants to see such a woman next to him. And if you have only one goal - to find yourself a man, you will not go far.
You criticize your ex too much
You may have gone through a not very successful relationship, you feel hurt, hurt, and you even hate your ex. But do not complain about him to your man. You should not make it clear in this way that your relationship is in reality in the past, and you will not approach your ex with a gun shot. Try to stay positive.
You are very difficult to reach
You must show your interest in a man, remain mysterious, allowing yourself to be revealed gradually. Therefore, be moderately accessible and open.
You treat other women badly
Surely, you want to show the man that against their background you are much better, more beautiful, smarter, etc. But you do the opposite. You should try to be better, while not humiliating anyone.
A lot of negativity comes from you
Even if you are a written beauty, in the event that negative, anger, criticism come from everywhere from you, you will definitely turn the man away from yourself.
Now you know what not to be around men!
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