It happens sometimes, everything seems to be good in a relationship, but something inside is gnawing. Some kind of aching feeling tells that everything is the end. Something is going wrong in your relationship. Everything seemed perfect, but something has changed. In many couples, this happens. Relationships become toxic, which means that they do not bring pleasure, calmness, confidence, and they have no future. And there are signs by which you can determine that something is wrong with you, well, or be convinced of the opposite!
Signs your relationship is toxic
You increasingly began to feel sad and cry, instead of rejoicing and laughing.
You are sad when you go home from work in a minibus or when you wash the dishes, or in the shower, as well as before going to bed, trying to sleep. No one said that relationships will always be rosy, but if you increasingly catch yourself thinking that you feel bad, sad, something goes wrong, it means that your subconscious emotions are very strong exhausted. All this began to break through into consciousness, and you can no longer ignore it. You still try to hide your sadness from your partner, but it seems that he does not pay any attention to your condition.
Your partner becomes annoyed at everything you say or do
But this was not the case before. Now any of your actions or deeds cause displeasure in him. And he does not hide it, he constantly expresses it to you. You suddenly realize that whatever you do, he doesn't like everything. The constant accusations and criticism against you are already tired of the order. In order to somehow survive in such a toxic environment, you have to keep silent, pretend, behave unnaturally, just to please him ...
You lie to your loved ones about your relationship.
Something strange began to happen between you and your partner, but you carefully hide it from your family and friends. You just don't want to wash dirty linen in public, and you think that outsiders don't need it, and many families live like this. It's a problem when things are bad in a relationship and you tell everyone that everything is good.
You rarely have sex.
Human needs human. A human needs touch, just like food, sleep and water. These are all natural needs. We all need to feel care, love, attention, connection. And you know perfectly well how much your partner needs sex and his habits in bed, but the intimacy between you has become less and less frequent, and this is not normal. He constantly refuses you, referring to fatigue after work, then to health problems. This is problem!
You have moved away from your loved ones
You began to feel that no one understood you. Naturally, you have changed, and your loved ones can see it. But you are so annoyed when they ask you unnecessary questions, when they climb with their advice, and try to help with something. You give up meeting your girlfriends and get annoyed when your mom calls. But this is all the influence of your man, it was he who put you into depression.
You started thinking about parting
No, you have no one in mind, you have not met another, and you are not going to change your partner. You just felt stuffy with this person, you feel good when he is not around, and you are sure that when he disappears from your life, you will feel relief. You have a hard time with him, physically or emotionally, and a natural reaction occurs - to run away from pain.
You intentionally annoy each other
You perfectly know each other's weak points, and now you have a new style of communication. In disputes, you try to hurt your partner for a quick, bring him to the boiling point, humiliate, insult. In any way, you try to poke each other out, to hurt. Is it normal?
It is important to stop in time and not ruin your life. Think about it!
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