Each person chooses his own environment. This applies to family and friendships and even colleagues at work. Yes, after all, if you are uncomfortable communicating with your colleagues at work, then you can change both colleagues and place of work. And nothing should stop you, because life is yours, it is one, and your environment can negatively affect it.
There are people who decorate our life, they make it brighter, brighter, more interesting. And there are those who, on the contrary, spoil everything. The negative environment turns us into negative, depressing, depressing. This is both "you are what you eat", and in communication, what is around, then settles inside you!
So let's find out the signs of human toxicity in order to protect ourselves from communicating with such. Even if they are your close friends or relatives, you should not tolerate negativity from them. Of course, when it comes to, say, a mother or a father, it is difficult to break all communication with them. In this case, you can reduce it to a minimum. If these are strangers who seek to break into your life, spraying toxicity everywhere, then it is better to stay away from those as far as possible.
8 signs of a bad person
- He is a real selfish person. He thinks only of himself, and tries to find benefits for himself in any situation. And even with you, he is only to achieve some goal.
- He is too much and often asks you for something. It takes a lot, but in return you get absolutely nothing from it.
- In any dispute with you, he tries, no matter what it takes, to come out right, win, win, and poke your nose into a mistake.
- With you alone, he is, in principle, friendly and kind, but he changes greatly when outsiders appear in addition to you. He seems to go over to the wrong side, he can pry you, laugh at you, be rude to you and rude.
- He never admits his guilt. In any situation, he tries to avoid responsibility, shifting it onto others, and he himself pretends to be a victim.
- He is trying to convince you that everything around is evil. You can not trust anyone, everyone wants to deceive you, they are waiting for your mistake, they wish you failures. And only he can be trusted.
- His behavior is constantly "jumping". He is sympathetic to you, kind, can sympathize, regret, listen, then suddenly turns into a completely different person. He becomes somehow angry, cold, indifferent, does not spare your feelings, is rude in words and behavior.
- He lies constantly, constantly and for any reason. This is his lifestyle. He even already believes in what he is inventing. If he is caught in a lie, he will never admit it. He also hides any flaws in his character and misleads you.
The “bad” people we just talked about are not at all. It's just that they are toxic, but in fact, they are all the same ordinary as we are, just with their own certain psychological problems. But nobody forces you to solve their problems. You don't have to spend your life doing this. Therefore, it is better not to communicate with such people.
These people choose convenient "copies" for themselves. Most often these are kind, sweet, purposeful and cheerful people. But they quickly cease to be so and also acquire psychological problems when they communicate with bad people. Why do you need this? I think there is no need! Life is too short to spend it on communication with such individuals!
Do you have such people in your life?
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