Most recently, you stopped crying into your pillow because of the breakup with your beloved man. So he decided, you better leave, because nothing worthwhile comes out of your relationship. You came to your senses, began to smile at men again, accept complements. You began to deal with your appearance, work, development. You got sick, stepped over, learned your lesson, and moved on. You enjoy life and do not remember your ex, about that person, the memory of which cut your heart and soul for a long time. And suddenly you receive a message from him ...
The news from him turned everything upside down. Why, after a long time, he suddenly decided to show up, as if he was mocking you and your feelings? What's going on in your head? What thoughts are visiting her? "Does he still love me?" But, if he loved you, he would never leave. "He decided to make fun of?" But a lot of time has passed, he could find himself a worthy game, and why does he need these children's games? "Has he realized that you are the best?" I suggest that you take your time with the answer, and do not invent non-existent things for yourself, but simply read this article.
Why does he want to go back?
He had the illusion that he would be much better on the other
In your relationship, he may have been dissatisfied with you in some way. And when I left, I was 100% sure that I would find someone better than you. But he failed. There are nuances in communicating with each person. When he suddenly wanted freedom, he was sure that without you he would walk to the fullest, go out with friends and chat with different girls until he finds much better than you. And what is the result? He quickly got tired of being a bachelor, and realized that he couldn't find anything better. Every woman has her own cockroaches in her head, and few people agree to endure his shortcomings, as you have been doing for a long time. And it suddenly dawned on him that he was wrong. So he decided that you were waiting for him back, and wanted to return to you.
You have managed to grow as individuals
Perhaps after your breakup, you thought at first that life was over, but then you got up, dusted yourself off and moved on. You began to change, and he saw it. Your appearance, habits, character have changed, you have achieved something. Now you have become a prey for him, he certainly wants to conquer you as you have become.
He wanted to come back to check your boundaries
This is sometimes so stupid on the part of men. But very often they return to their ex only to check what they are ready to accept in them, what they are willing to endure. The mistake of many ladies is that they gladly accept the men who have thrown them back, and then they understand that later it will be possible to do the same again.
He was tormented by nostalgia
You, for sure, also periodically covered with memories, and so wanted to write to him, call, let him in again into your life. Perhaps you even did this, but he was silent, and you resigned yourself to your nostalgia, endured this pain in silence. And then nostalgia covered him, but this does not mean that you need to take him back. Why did he leave you? Remember that he once left you, and don't forget the reason. Maybe you shouldn't step into the same river again?
He really wants you back
Of course, now most of the women reading this article will stop at the last point. He wanted to come back because he really wants to get you back. You know, of course, everyone in life makes mistakes, and perhaps he turned out to be the one who needed to understand himself and his feelings for you. In that case, don't rush. Wait, watch him, his behavior, words, deeds. Just make no mistake, so as not to choke on tears at night again. If your ex does pass the test and you still love him, well, give him a second chance!
Girls, the most important thing is to love and appreciate yourself, and do not let men take advantage of you!
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