We all want ordinary female happiness, and we try to see only the best in our soulmates. Very often, women turn a blind eye to the bad attitude of their partners towards them, and become victims of manipulators. There are men who just want to take advantage of the girl, how exactly? Read on. There are signs that tell you that he is manipulating you. By the way, these are not my inventions, the article was written according to the words of the men themselves!
How to understand that he is manipulating you?
You constantly feel guilty.
At first you don't know each other well, but then your complexes and shortcomings open up to the man. There are individuals who then take advantage of women's weaknesses, making the ladies guilty for all their words, deeds, and actions. Whatever you say, whatever you do, he turns everything over so that you remain guilty.
His problems become more important than yours.
In general, in a normal relationship, a man solves not only his own problems, but also the problems of his woman. But sometimes things are completely different. If you come across a manipulative man, he will not solve your problems, but he will complain about his own. Over time, you will realize that you are of no value to him at all, and it is his problems that are of great value to you as well. He will "present" himself in such a way that it is very difficult for him, but you, in principle, are not so bad. And forget about your problems, he won't even want to hear about them.
By insulting you, he will say that this is just a joke
He constantly says something offensive and insulting to you, and then, when he sees that you are strongly hooked, he begins to excuse himself that all this is a common joke. This is a real manipulation that can be conscious or not. He's just trying to convince you that he is not the problem, but you. It’s you who are too sensitive, you don’t understand jokes, but he doesn’t know how to joke normally, adequately.
He always does what he wants
By the way, this may not be manipulation, although most often it is still it. Some men generally do not make concessions to their second half. They prefer to do absolutely everything their own way. Probably, they are simply afraid that they will be considered henpecked, who are led by women in everything. So such individuals go to visit only their relatives, communicate only with their friends, spend time the way they want. And they generally do not take into account the desires and needs of their partners.
He threatens you
For example, a man forces you to do what you don't want and threatens to leave you. Or, let's say your relationship is already doomed, and you are going to leave him, and he begins to threaten you that he will do something to himself.
He constantly presses on pity
A man constantly poses as a victim, even when he is guilty. He does not take responsibility for his actions, does not admit his guilt. He always makes himself an offended victim, and you are always to blame for everything.
He's too intrusive
Say, this is not usually typical of men? If it is necessary for manipulation, then in principle it is possible! He calls you, writes 100 SMS a day, does not give you a pass. He bothers you with his persona, and does not even let you do his business. But then, when you need him, he suddenly has urgent matters.
Girls, appreciate and love yourself first!
