Why does our life sometimes not give us pleasure, why cannot we fully enjoy pleasant events, rest and not think about bad things? A lot depends on the kind of people around you. The more negativity around, the more it is in your head and, accordingly, in your life.
It's time to break up with some people and do it today
Don't hang out with people you've outgrown
You don't have to leave in your life those people with whom you have a long history in common. For example, you have been friends since childhood, but then your paths diverged. You began to develop, change, but your friend did not. You just don't have common goals and topics for conversation anymore, so why would you want to continue your conversation at all? You have the right to change your life the way you want it, you do not have to adapt to anyone, and you can change your circle of contacts. You have already outgrown all this, and you need to move on!
Don't hang out with people with whom you are uncomfortable
If a person makes fun of you, does not respect you, and you feel uncomfortable next to him, then feel free to stop any communication with him. Calmly leave this person behind, and do not think that you can upset him with your decision. Your personal happiness is much more important, you need to put yourself first, and take care of your comfort first of all.
Don't hang out with people who have hurt you or your loved ones
Perhaps these people have done nothing wrong to you personally, but they can do badly to your loved ones. And you have the right to no longer communicate with such. You don't have to stay in touch with them if they've always done perfect with you.
Don't hang out with people who have suddenly changed.
You have already once said goodbye to them, because communication did not suit you, you were hurt and etc. And now they have changed, but you have the right not to forgive and not let them back into your personal a life. You have the right not to give anyone a second chance because you don't want to.
Don't hang out with people with whom you have different outlooks on life
You do not need to maintain good relations with your relatives' friends, colleagues and neighbors if you and them have completely different views on certain things. If you like different music, movies, pastime, then you don't have to adjust to someone and change your interests.
Let go of people you don't keep in touch with
Why do you need people who do not remember you for a long time, who do not call you, do not write, and generally do not make themselves felt in any way. Apparently, they should be left in the past and not be imposed.
Don't chat with people you aren't interested in.
Why waste yourself and your time on people with whom you are not interested at all? You have the right to leave. And this will not mean at all that you hate them, it is just that you have completely different priorities, and you, and maybe those people, have already changed.
Everything in life is always changing, and you cannot influence it in any way. You don't have to cling to people with all your limbs with whom you are connected by some memories, certain events in your life, pleasant moments in life. Learn to love yourself and value your time. On your way, you will definitely meet new acquaintances that will be pleasant, useful, and necessary for you. Try to leave in the past those people with whom you are no longer on the way.
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