No matter how unpleasant it was, but a lot of couples after marriage eventually come to a decision to divorce. There are many reasons: betrayal, poverty, incompatibility of characters, addictions of one of the spouses, etc. And even if the couple got divorced so to speak on a good note, without any unnecessary shaking and emotions, the question arises as to where to put the wedding ring. Let's talk about this.
Well, divorced. It happens to everyone. Life doesn't end there yet. But what to do with the ring? Leave it to yourself or get rid of it? I'm not even talking about feelings, and about the fact that the ring is like a symbol of a relationship that once existed. I'm talking about precious metal, sorry for the product. Especially if the ring is heavy and expensive.
So what to do with a wedding ring after a divorce?
It is believed that after a divorce, the ring should be changed on the left hand and worn on the ring finger. So you yourself will let everyone know that you are divorced. But, by the way, I don't see this often. In addition, when you see a person's ring on the ring finger of his left hand, you might think that this is a married foreigner.
Some believe that if you wear a wedding ring after a divorce, you can attract a lot of trouble, setbacks and negativity. Firstly, the ring will remind you that nothing worked, and secondly, it will always slow you down on the way to a new relationship, like everything will end the same way.
I think that it is either better to hide the ring somewhere far away in a distant closet, if now it is very difficult to part with it. And I've seen many times in films how girls, and guys, after a divorce, in sorrow and sadness, tore off the ring from their hand and threw it somewhere into a cliff, into a river, from a window. This is as one of the options for getting rid of the annoying and painful object.
Here are some more options
- You can return your wedding ring to your ex-husband (or wife). It will turn out such a noble act on the one hand, on the other hand, the desire and the opportunity to show that you are independent from everything that happened, including financially.
- You can sell the ring at the pawnshop. Yes, they won't give much for it, but at least something. And besides, you will get rid of your wedding ring once and for all.
- You can hand over a ring in the same pawnshop and exchange it for any other decoration by adding some amount of rubles.
Generally they say that gold keeps the energy of the person to whom it belonged for a long time. I think if you continue to wear the engagement band after a divorce, then in life there will definitely always be a negative and unpleasant aftertaste. Therefore, try to say goodbye to this subject, this is not a ring of Omnipotence.
But what about the wedding ring?
There are couples who get married in church, but still get divorced. Okay, formally everyone has decided, but what to do with the wedding ring? On this topic, I think the best option would be to talk to a priest. He will explain to you exactly what is best to do with the ring. One option is to donate the jewelry to the church where the wedding took place. They say that so the guilt of the married for the destruction of the family is reduced.
I cannot say exactly what I will do with my ring if I get divorced. It's just that I'm definitely not going to do this now. And no divorce - no problem. One thing I know for sure is that it is possible and necessary to work on any relationship, but it is definitely not possible to achieve idyll and mutual understanding just like that.
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