With age, people begin to look at life differently, and have a completely different attitude to many things. Or maybe you need to change something right today? There are things you should start doing now, not in old age.
Do it now!
Don't hold back your own opinion
Sometimes in our life we encounter outright injustice. So for some reason young people prefer to close their eyes and keep silent. But you can't do that. You need to seek justice, especially if the injustice is directed at you. With age, people already look at many things differently, and with any rudeness they try to defend their position. Maybe you should learn this now?
Don't live on other people's hopes
There is no need to adapt to anyone, prove something to someone, and worry about what others will think of you. For example, the female sex is very much concerned about her appearance, and sometimes there is a real panic when you need to go somewhere, and the ladies cannot put themselves in perfect order. This changes with age. Of course, you should not think that if you are over 40-50, then you can already give a damn about your appearance. It's just that with age, the attitude towards other people's opinions changes dramatically, and people don't care what others say or think.
Don't be ashamed of your own desires
Young people are often ashamed of their desires and goals, and are forced to hide it deep within themselves. This changes over time. Adults no longer consider their hobbies and desires as a weakness, they begin to respect them. Express yourself now. Listen to the music that you like, read what you want, develop, learn new things, strive to achieve your desires. And don't be ashamed of it!
Choose comfortable shoes
All their youth, women “drive” on hefty heels, sacrificing their comfort and convenience for the sake of beauty and effect. And only with age comes the realization that this is wrong. Comfortable and comfortable footwear is health, especially since now you can pick up very fashionable options. And again, it’s more about the opinions of others. Young ladies want to impress those around them, but it should be all the same to who and what will think there.
Don't apologize for the mess.
Probably, many are familiar with this. As soon as the guests are on the doorstep, spring cleaning begins. And with age comes the realization that order in the house is not necessary at all. Maybe you are creative and not obsessed with perfect cleanliness. You have no one to make yourself an excellent hostess.
Don't keep broken items and unwanted clothes at home
Almost all women have clothes in the closet, which are “in case I lose weight”, “I will put on someday”, “I have to put it on”. And also sometimes some of them have broken kettles, curling irons, telephones idle. As people age, more and more people get rid of trash in the house. If the blouse in your closet has been hanging “idle” for the second year already, then maybe it's time to throw it away, or give it to someone? And if you can't take your old blender to the master, and you are already using a new one, then maybe there is no place for an “old man” in the house?
If your colleagues are unpleasant to you, do not communicate with them.
Usually, in a work team, colleagues often go together for lunch. But you do not have to do this if you are not comfortable with such a company. By the way, eating is a real sacred sacrament, and you should be in a comfortable environment while consuming food. Unfortunately, many begin to understand this only with age. Our life is too short to spend it on communication with someone we don't like!
Look for positive qualities in people
Try to treat people differently than young people do. No need to hang labels, be aggressive, rude, try to see something positive in every person. Just respect someone else's appearance, outlook on life, hobbies, even if all this frankly seems terrible to you. Be more tolerant of others, if you are unable to do this, then simply limit communication with the person.
Live now, not later!
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