When you are constantly hurt, you can no longer live the way you used to. You seem to be in your own little world, shutting yourself off from others, because you are afraid that unbearable painful sensations will cause you once again. This pain in the heart, in the soul. It turns into an experience that radically changes a person. And sometimes we ourselves do not realize that we have changed in something, that something is already going wrong.
A woman whose heart has been broken very often changes her value system and her behavior. Nothing in life can pass without a trace, and this pain from mental wounds in love also leaves its mark.
Here are the things a brokenhearted woman does
Stops taking love seriously
Once she already believed in love, and wanted to devote herself entirely to man. She tried for a relationship, she sacrificed a lot, she sacrificed herself. But then her heart was broken, and she suddenly began to understand that no love exists, this is all fiction. She doesn't want to meet anyone because she won't let anyone break her heart anymore.
Spits on the feelings of others
Once upon a time she was already kind, sympathetic, patient, attentive. But she was very often thrown and wounded, and now she can simply spit on other people's feelings and leave first. And she does not even think about the fact that she also hurts someone, because she absolutely does not care.
Dating her ex
They hurt her, and, meeting with them, she knows very well that she could become even worse than now. But she just can't help herself. The pain she was hurt had already become a habit, and now she just got used to being around those who hurt her. She has already given up on herself, and is sure that she has nothing more to lose. Let her be happy even for a minute than to be constantly in suffering.
Becomes secretive
She no longer wants to share her secrets with anyone, to open her soul and heart. It used to do so often, but in return, people used it. Now she's more careful because she doesn't want someone to trample her heart and hurt her again.
Becomes suspicious and cynical
Now she is sure that most people are just playing with other people's feelings, and they don't care who and what feels. She doesn't trust anyone, even if someone really treats her well. She doesn't believe in any kind of love, and she doesn't believe in people anymore.
Doesn't respect people
What respect? She had already lost it! She was very often betrayed and she finally learned a lesson from this. Now she won't let anyone use her. She will not let anyone into her wounded soul, she will not allow anyone to play with her. She is sure that everyone who tries to meet her or start a relationship is just trying to take advantage of her. And she tries her best to prevent this.
Doesn't believe in romance
She sees a couple passing by, a girl with flowers, the guy reads her poems, and just laughs at them. She no longer believes in sincerity, in romance, all this is false for her. It's just that once her sincerity was impudently used and hurt.
There are many women in the world who have been repeatedly burned in love. For some reason, a person sometimes does not see obvious things, does not want to understand that he is being used, does not want to believe that he is being lied to about feelings. Love - it is so... It cloudes the mind, and does not allow normal thinking. And only then, when it becomes unbearably painful, when the heart is smashed to smithereens, and the soul is torn to shreds, suddenly comes the realization of all this. And I don't want to feel this pain again, I don't want to believe in love, I don't want to trust people ...
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