Looking at elderly ladies from other countries, you come to a real delight. It seems these women never age at all. They already have grandchildren, or even great-grandchildren, they work or are already retired, they are married, divorced or become widows, they lead an active lifestyle or are engaged in a vegetable garden. But still, they always look stunning, always smell good and have a manicure. Fast forward to our latitudes. We have women over 60, if, of course, they do not occupy any high positions or are not stars of show business, they give up on themselves, turning into attendants! They do not see the point at the age of 60 to look beautiful, attractive, they have other things to do and chores ...
I once overheard a conversation between two elderly ladies who, as usual, were sitting on a bench in the yard. One of them says: “Manicure? Well, and why do I need him, am I going to be younger with him? " The second kept up the conversation: “Indeed, why this manicure? I won't get any younger from this. More beautiful? Maybe, but quite a bit. And in front of whom to flaunt something? Just a waste of time and money! "
It was sad to listen to this. Our women are accustomed to “plowing for three”, and to allocate a minimum of time for themselves. And with age it becomes a habit, and for an elderly woman, self-love is sitting with her “girlfriends” in the yard and watching her favorite TV series.
In developed countries, the age of 60 is considered the middle age. Their life there is always in full swing, because the children have already grown up, a career has been built, money has been earned. It's time to live for yourself. Everything is a little different with us. Of course, those penny pensions that are paid to our old people leave much to be desired. But you can allocate at least a minimum for self-care! This is all from self-dislike!
It is not at all necessary to have a lot of money and a certain age to look great and get yourself a manicure. If someone considers it vulgar, then you can always choose neutral makeup, neutral shades of nail polish. Everything in moderation, and you will be beautiful! Are you going to be broke if you go to a manicure master every 3 weeks?
Agree, it is very nice to see older women who dress tastefully, watch their hands and hair. But people pay attention to their hands first of all, and in the first place they either attract or repel.
With a neat manicure, you can do household chores. With the right hairstyle, you won't have to put beauty on your head for a long time in the morning.
For whom to do all this? Do you really need to be beautiful for someone? Trying to look better in someone else's eyes? The main function of hairstyles, manicure and makeup is to gain comfort and self-confidence. When you are confident, you are more open, outgoing, and your eyes glow!
Why do our women in their 60s think so little of themselves? According to experts, this comes from a distant childhood. In Soviet and post-Soviet times, from childhood, they were taught to sacrifice oneself, one's desires, to live for something, for the sake of someone, to be sacrificial, to help everyone. And what time is there for yourself?
And how can a person love others if he treats himself badly? This is probably why older women have strong convictions that everyone around them owes them. They sacrificed so much, for example, for the sake of children, and children now owe them.
You need to appreciate and love yourself first of all! If so, then it will manifest itself externally. If a woman's inner world is all right, then she is confident in herself! And others feel it. Therefore, it does not matter how old you are 30, 40 or over 60, at any age you need to love yourself, respect, and look good!
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