Many men speak negatively about women with children. Such hard-hitting expressions as “second-hand”, “divorced woman with a trailer”, “second-hand”, etc. are addressed to the unfortunate ladies. And they are very afraid to marry such people, because you will have to immediately take responsibility not only for your wife, but also for child. Children are also called a ballast and a burden, and sometimes there is a fear that they will become an object of hatred. But I would not recommend jumping to conclusions. And I will give you at once 7 reasons why you should marry a woman with a child.
Reasons to marry a woman with a child
The woman has already realized herself as a mother, so she will not rush to pregnancy
Men are afraid of children, for the most part, and the thought that a small screaming lump will soon appear in the house is a little burdensome for them. And many modern young ladies immediately after receiving a stamp in their passport begin to actively plan a child. There is less time and less opportunity to enjoy a fulfilling married life. A woman who already has a child will not rush. Therefore, the man will have time to get used to each other, see the world, furnish the apartment.
A woman knows a lot about relationships
She does not have rose-colored glasses, she does not live in illusions and fairy tales, she really looks at things. Simply because she has already gone through all this, and now she knows a lot about relationships. Relationships, in her opinion, require a responsible approach, the ability to compromise, trust, mutual understanding and respect.
Native women will respect the new chosen one.
Well, people have different thoughts in their heads. Relatives may be glad that "at least someone took her." Anyway, a man who takes responsibility for raising someone else's child, without fear of difficulties and obstacles, definitely deserves respect!
A man can try himself as a father
Even if not native, but, as they say, the father is not the one who gave the seed... Whatever one may say, but the man will have participate in the child's life, spend evenings, weekends together, watch TV together, walk around shops. A child is a part of a woman's life, and a man accepts her with all its parts. Having tried the role of a father on himself, a man will understand whether he is ready for the birth of his own baby. And it is worth remembering that, perhaps, the child will see his own father, and not interfere with this.
A woman with a child is already a conscious and formed personality
She already understood what life is, she is able to easily achieve her goals, she will not expect help from anyone, and only serious relationships are important to her. And, if she chose a man for herself, it means that she really has serious feelings for him. This is for comparison with young girls who sometimes do not know what they want.
A woman talks about everything openly and directly
All her complaints, discontent and so on, she will always speak in the eyes. If something is not clear to her, she will ask, will not play guesswork, keep something silent, play around and pretend. It is worth a lot to communicate with a person who says everything frankly!
A woman chooses an equal relationship
She doesn't need a daddy or a sponsor. She wants one thing from a new relationship - a loved one. In principle, she is able to provide for herself and the child, therefore she considers her future husband as an equal partner with her, and not a wallet with money. She will not demand the impossible from a man, nag him, belittle him, she chooses an equal relationship.
Every woman is unique and inimitable, so let's not lump everyone together. Sometimes divorced ladies meet their quirks. But no one drags you immediately to the registry office, you can always look at the chosen one, understand her, get to know her better in order to conclude whether you see her in the role of your future wife or not.
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