It seems to many that "lady" is something unattainable, expensive, royal. We are used to the fact that our Russian women, as they say, will stop the horse at a run, and there is something else. Where are we to the ladies, there they are, and we are in simple Russian villages. But it’s completely different! Every woman, if desired, is also capable of becoming a lady! And I'm sure you've come across such in your life. They somehow carry themselves differently, some impeccable, as if they keep a brand. At the same time, there are many rich women on the planet who cannot be called a lady at all, for example, how do you like Elena Baturina? Far from the lady, isn't it, and yet one of the richest women in the world.
So who are they, ladies, really? Yes, they are stylish women, with proud posture and impeccable manners. They are perfect. And today I want to tell you about the rules of every lady, which always remain relevant, even in our modern time! Ladies' rules are not the last century, and I will prove it to you!
Real lady rules
First rule
A real lady will never impose her opinion on others. She is always tolerant and respectful of people's point of view, even if it differs from her own. She likes to learn everything new, she is open to receiving information, and on any issue and in any situation she always has her own personal opinion.
Second rule
A real lady is always kind and friendly to those around her. She treats each person with genuine respect, and in no case allows herself to behave disrespectfully and treat others.
Third rule
A real lady is respectful of people, regardless of their social status, gender, race and nationality. For her, all people are equal, and everyone deserves respect. She respects the traditions and culture of other peoples. She is tolerant of same-sex relationships. She treats both women and men with equal respect.
Fourth rule
A real lady is very modest by nature. Not a drop of vulgarity, both in dress and in habits and behavior. She is both humble, confident and calm. She does not try to catch the eye of others, does not try to please everyone, thereby, on the contrary, draws attention to her person. She does not gesticulate, does not laugh out loud, does not use foul language, does not get into a conversation if she is not asked to do so.
Fifth rule
A real lady has a straight posture. Whatever the situation, she always keeps her back straight. Of course, if we talk about ladies of past times, then they achieved an even posture with the help of a corset. You say, well, how to keep your back straight, if you have so much work, so much to do, but did these slender ladies work at all? I understand that this is difficult, but if you want to look decent, you have to take care of your posture!
Sixth rule
For a real lady, my dear girls, 3 things are completely forbidden: obscene words, smoking and drinking! So, if necessary, it's time to rethink your lifestyle.
Seventh rule
A real lady always behaves very noble. She is familiar with the rules of etiquette and always adheres to them, she is kind to other people, she is an example to follow.
Eighth rule
A real lady is not afraid of hard work. Do not think that being a lady means being a white-handed person. Even princesses and countesses in difficult times became sisters of mercy without any problems, and looked after the wounded soldiers!
Girls, confess, do you follow all the lady's rules?
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