There are billions of people on Earth, and not everyone manages to find their soul mate, the only one with which you can go through all the hardships of life and live to old age. We can search for a long time, parting with our loved ones yesterday, because, well, we just can't live in perfect harmony. Yes, there are people who do not suit us at all. Even if you feel passion, affection, sympathy, it seems to you that you love a person, there are things without which you cannot be together.
Throughout your life, there should be "chemistry" between you and your partner, not only at the very beginning of the relationship, but throughout life, you know? But how to understand that this "chemistry" is between you? Very simple! If you do these things together, then congratulations!
You have fun together
You just feel good together, fun, interesting. You have the same sense of humor, you can cheerfully laugh at some nonsense that others will just twist their fingers at their temples. This is one of the important indicators of a strong pair. With a partner, it should be not only reliable, but also fun.
Together you are safe and confident
In your relationship, you feel secure, you are confident in yourself, in your partner, as he is in you. Your couple is your refuge. When you are together, you are not afraid of anything. Your relationships make you stronger, not create new fears. It's easy for you, you know that you can always rely on your partner in any situation.
There is absolute honesty between you
Of course, healthy relationships are built only on mutual trust, and for this, partners must be honest with each other. Otherwise, any union is simply doomed to failure. If you or your partner has to hide something, you can say for sure that the future of your relationship is unpromising. You can't live a lie, look your loved one in the eye and lie. This is simply impossible!
You can be silent without awkwardness
Not necessarily, if you are together, then you always have to talk about something. If your relationship is real, strong, healthy, then, in principle, you can be in the same room and be silent, while not feeling awkward. This is a very good sign!
Both of you give each other space and privacy.
Every person needs personal space. Even if you are in a relationship, you are still two individuals and individuals, each of which is unique in its own way. You love each other, trust, but there are personal boundaries that you do not violate. You respect each other's privacy, which is another very good sign!
You support each other's dreams and goals
Both of you are different, even though you have a lot in common. You can have some dreams and goals of your own, and it's great when you understand each other and support each other in this. Relationships should not be an obstacle to achieving goals, on the contrary, the other half should help to realize and implement them.
Together you can communicate openly on any topic
You do not hide your feelings, and you can openly talk about them with each other. You feel safe when you express them, and you also know how to listen, understand, and respond appropriately.
The relationship between a man and a woman requires constant work on themselves. If you understand this, if you can communicate openly, respect each other's boundaries, you move towards your goals and do not forget about dreams, if you are honest with each other, you can be silent together and have fun in the same way, then your relationship is the very love that you deserve! Appreciate and love each other!
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