If you look at many people, they work, they work, and it seems like it turns out to make money, but they still won't get rich. Experts say that the poor mindset hinders many from getting rich. What it is? Read on! You may have problems with this too.
Why is it so hard for you to get rich?
You don't live in the present
Perhaps the information will seem strange to you, but the past no longer exists, just as there is no future. Think, as soon as the future comes, it ceases to be, because it turns into the present. Well, everything is clear with the past, these are just your memories - nothing more. You need to live here and now, in this moment, in the present moment. Your life is focused precisely at this time, which in seconds will disappear into oblivion.
What I mean - no need to philosophize for a long time about missed moments and opportunities, worry about committed mistakes, you do not need to build pink dreams in front of you, if you do not support them with any actions! “If I learned to be a doctor, now I would receive a lot”, “If I married Vova, then I now had would a life in chocolate "," Now, when I meet a worthy man, then my life will be comfortable "and all in the same spirit. Such thoughts stop us in the past or in the future, but time flies and nothing changes!
You are very afraid of change
Life is fleeting, and changes are needed for changes for the better, without them nothing will happen. No matter how scary it is for you to change your profession, place of work, status, etc., if it is necessary for life to change, act. Fear of change makes a person ossified and does not allow him to develop and achieve his goals. Change it urgently!
You look at men as a resource
Of course, this article is devoted to both men and women, but this point applies exclusively to the beautiful half of humanity. Girls, you yourself first choose a richer and more promising man for yourself, and then you start whining that you were married to the wrong person. No, of course, if you need a bag of money, and not a man, then you can immediately admit this to your rich gentleman, so at least it will be honest. The choice is only yours!
You devalue other people's victories
Simply put, you are jealous. Probably, it's unpleasant when nothing works out for you, and next to you is a friend, to whom money is flowing into the hands of a river. Well, it is not your friend's fault that you are unlucky, why you need to throw mud at him, be angry with him. Learn to rejoice in other people's victories already. What will change if you begin to belittle others by praising yourself against them? “Sveta bought herself a car, but she can't find a man, but I have one, she loves me”, “Anka is constantly on business trips, her children don't understand with whom, but I'm a very good mother, always with children.” With such phrases, you not only devalue other people's victories, but also create the illusion around yourself that everything is fine with you. Are you really doing well if you still live in a rented apartment, without a car, and still dream of getting rich?
You imitate the behavior of the rich
For some reason, many people believe that the rich are arrogant, demanding, scandalous. And it is precisely the poor who begin to "copy" such behavior, making scandals in cafes and restaurants, showing their show off, being rude to others. They believe that everyone around them owes them, especially those employees of cafes, restaurants and shops who "have never achieved anything in their lives." Remember, the rich don't behave like that, they never dismiss people who get less.
You imitate the life of the rich
In public, you try to look like a star, buy yourself branded clothes and the latest iPhone, but in fact you live in a rented hut and eat nothing but doshirakas. Why all this? To be envied, right? But tell me, who are you trying to deceive? You are simply faking, but people understand everything, they can see everything! And you are only deceiving yourself!
You know exactly who is to blame for your poverty
The blame for being poor lies on the shoulders of your parents, the state, ex-husband / wife, friends who have refused connections. You can think of as many excuses and excuses for yourself. But in reality you are poor because you yourself are to blame! Think, you yourself took part in your enrichment, or can you only shift your blame onto others?
I hope you find this article helpful. It's time to take your butt off the couch and do at least something to get rich.
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