Don't worry about how others see you. Love yourself, your body, your loved ones, your interests. There are things you no longer need to be ashamed of, start treating this life a little differently today!
Things you shouldn't be ashamed of
Time for yourself
When a person is immersed in work and problems, he sometimes does not have time for himself. It's time to fix it, devote time to yourself, and don't be ashamed of it. Instead of constantly worrying about the happiness of others, start making yourself happy already! Take a day off and spend it profitably. Take a walk, read books, meet interesting people, go for a massage - do what you like.
Emotions
Very often we are forced to hide our true emotions so that they do not think badly of us, so as not to upset someone. Isn't it time to become natural and express your emotions openly? Sad, happy, angry? Don't keep it to yourself. And in no way be ashamed of it!
People you feel good with
You shouldn't care at all what other people think about the people with whom you enjoy spending time. You relax with them, you have common interests, they help you become better - the rest should not worry you!
Profession
Each of us chooses his own path and his profession. If you like to taxi, to do manicure, to paint, you shouldn't be ashamed of it. This is your life and your choice. Don't let outside criticism change your line of business. The most important thing is that you enjoy your work.
Ability to forgive
For some reason, society is so arranged that people who have been offended hurt them, they continue to get angry all their lives, ignore the offender, condemn. If you are not like everyone else, if you know how to forgive and let go of negativity from yourself, then you have nothing to be ashamed of! By the way, with your forgiveness, you bring more benefit not even to the person you forgiven, but to yourself.
Optimism
People who know how to believe in the best experience less stress and more easily cope with difficult times in their lives. This is great if you do not give up even in very difficult situations and move on.
Positive thinking
If bad moments happen in our life, this does not mean that we constantly only need to think about the bad. And after all, no one can predict when a black streak will come in life, and it's great that you can always choose the best path for yourself, thinking positively.
Live how you want
Remember that life is yours, and you do not have to follow other people's expectations, and try to please everyone. If you live the way you want, you are lucky, and you shouldn't be ashamed of it!
Past
No one in life is immune from mistakes, and you should not hide your past from others, being ashamed of it. You have gained experience, learned a lesson, and move on, and no one has the right to judge you.
Your body
Due to the fact that the world is constantly coming up with some kind of human figure standards, people who do not correspond to them begin to be ashamed of their own bodies. You shouldn't do this, accept and love yourself for who you are. And don’t get overwhelmed by what others think of you! There are no standards, and there are no ideal people in the world. We are all different!
Food preferences
Someone is sitting on a PP, someone is a vegetarian, and someone cannot live without fried meat. If you have any particular eating habits, you have nothing to be ashamed of. We are all different, we have different preferences and desires. It is only your body and your health, and only you yourself are responsible for what you eat, and who and what says there - it does not matter!
Perfection
If you like to improve yourself, you attend developmental trainings, like to sign up for various courses on knowing yourself or in order to acquire some new skills / knowledge, then you have absolutely nothing be ashamed. For this you need to praise, not criticize! And you, like each of us, should have freedom of choice! So don't be ashamed of it!
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