Why waste your life dealing with negative people? Their behavior is not your problem. Don't let others spoil your existence! There are types of behavior of people who will tell you directly that it is time to interrupt communication.
These types of negative behaviors should not be tolerated.
They like to stab you in the back
It seems to me that such a “well-wisher” can be found in the environment of any person. In person, he may even seem like a sweet, kind, good person, but as soon as you lose your guard, you are dealt a crushing blow. Mischief, condemnation, bad words that do not go straight into the eyes, but sneakily. You will be knocked out unexpectedly, you will not expect a blow. Such a person simply experiences unreal pleasure from the fact that he has hurt someone, so he feels like a winner. Don't put up with it. Such people should be immediately driven out of their lives.
Confirmation of excellence is always required from you
There are people who are practically not interested in your affairs, but they rattle about themselves without ceasing. So, they always need confirmation of their perfection. And they pull it out of you. They pretend to be poor, unhappy, so that you cheer them up, praise them, say how amazing they are. It's time to put these people in their place. You don't have to praise anyone, let him sing songs of praise to himself!
People pretending to be a victim
There are a lot of such "victims" around. Just do not need to immediately be led by them. Most likely, all these "victims" are ordinary manipulators and boors. Very disgusting types, and one should not be led by their mournful appearance and eternal whining.
People are constantly competing with you
I'm not talking about healthy competition, say, in terms of work, well, or, let's say, in a dispute. There are such "friends" who are very jealous if you achieve success, buy yourself an expensive thing. They smile in the eyes, and they themselves are trying to achieve more than you. Such people all the time try to prove to you that they are better than you, but life is not a competition. Is it pleasant for you to communicate with a person who goes out of his way to surpass you, who simply sleeps and sees that you stumbled, made a mistake and did not achieve what you wanted? Let him prove his superiority to someone else.
Your flaws are pointed out to you
If a person constantly criticizes you, humiliates you, throws mud at you, then he definitely has no place in your life. Don't put up with it, don't hold back, and don't be shy. Learn to boldly say that you will not tolerate such an attitude towards yourself. Of course, perhaps you will succeed, and the person will stop looking in you and noticing all kinds of flaws, but most likely he quickly change his behavior to another negative one, harbor anger, and will continue to "erupt" his anger surreptitiously.
You are remembered when you need something
Also a very unpleasant type of behavior of people. They suddenly remember you when your help is needed, they will never call you and find out how you are, they will not visit you if you are sick. But when something is needed from you, this is please! A person may appear even after years of silence to use you for their own purposes. And so try to refuse such, resentment, tears immediately begin, a real performance!
Filter out people with these types of negative behaviors from your life!
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