You can now find a lot of information on this topic on the Internet. But, I've read, and came to the conclusion that everywhere it is told not about wise women, but about comfortable ones. You know, these are those who can please men, are silent all the time, know perfectly well when and what to say to them. I think this is a complete injustice. Why are they trying to make women comfortable, and who? Men? They ring at every step, and on the same Internet, about what she is, a "wise woman", but in fact they add things that make a woman plasticine in the hands of a man.
I will try to dispel all these myths and highlight 10 signs that characterize a wise woman, not a comfortable one!
She does not deceive herself
A wise woman does not live with illusions and does not feed herself with deceitful thoughts. She is a realist, she is not engaged in self-deception. She understands perfectly well that if a man does not call her, it is not because he is insanely busy, but because he simply does not want it. If a man does not offer a girl to live together, then you should not get to know each other better, and he does not see her as his only one. Yes, it may be rude, but it is also wise to face the truth.
She is self-sufficient
This does not necessarily mean that she is completely self-sufficient, and the smartest in the world. She is a whole unit, she can exist alone, and she does not make the center of the Universe out of a man! She loves herself, does her favorite thing, realizing that besides a man, there are a lot of interesting things in life.
She is emotionally strong.
She does not cry about the past, does not reproach herself for the mistakes she has made. He simply draws conclusions about everything that happened, gains experience, and moves on. She will not press on pity, go to extremes. No, she will not hide her emotions, but inflating an elephant from a fly is also not her demeanor.
She is good at understanding people
She is a real psychologist who senses when people are cunning and lying. It is simply impossible to twist it around the finger. She seems to read people like an open book.
She doesn't chase fashion
She has long had her own unique style, which has formed over the years of her life. She already knows perfectly well what suits her and what doesn't. She knows what makes her fat and what makes her slim. Why should she buy the most fashionable clothes from the latest Dior collection if she knows that it won't suit her? She will better acquire what she will be perfect in.
She has clear personality boundaries.
She sets them herself, and does not allow anyone to violate them. She doesn't care about threats, persuasions and persuasion, she has her own opinion on everything. In her personal space, which is very important for her, only trusted and reliable people find themselves.
She knows all the needs of her body
She does not have any force majeure with health. Because she has studied her body for a long time. For example, if in the evening she was invited to a fun holiday, and a fun meeting is scheduled for the morning, then she will never allow herself to drink too much.
She is a good analyst
And this same analyst not only makes plans for the future, but also assesses all his chances for their implementation. She will not get down to business if she realizes that she cannot bring it to its logical conclusion.
She lives in the present
In doing so, she plans the future, and takes into account mistakes from the past.
She 100% feels like a woman
And that is why she is so attractive to others. Her femininity is manifested in everything: in appearance, in conversation, in behavior. She is confident in herself, and knows that this is God's gift that needs to be protected.
Now do you understand what she really is, a wise woman?
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