Do you think that a person can only be attractive externally? Personally, I have many times come across the fact that outwardly nice people were repulsive when communicating, and seemingly unattractive, on the contrary, were easy and interesting to communicate. Today I want to talk about the qualities that make a person attractive, regardless of his appearance.
Qualities of an attractive person
He does what he likes, even if it doesn't bring him popularity.
Sometimes you have to make compromises in order to fit into society and not seem stubborn. However, truly attractive people do the business that they like, even if there are completely different "fashion trends" around. And after all, this only attracts others and makes a person incredibly unusual and very popular!
He does not stoop to pettiness and always tries to be above quarrels.
It attracts others so much. A person is open, he does not spread rumors behind his back, he is not petty, and tries in every possible way to avoid quarrels. He does not fill the lives of those around him with stress and useless experiences, and this is worth a lot.
He remembers important details
It's not about such details as, say, the date of birth. It's about unobvious details and remembering strange interests. Let's say you told a person about your hobby, and he, after a few days, tells you about his reading a fascinating article on your topic. Or you shared a problem, and after a while the person asks how your affairs were resolved.
He protects those who cannot do it themselves
A person who shows fearlessness in the face of problems, while protecting those who are weaker than him, is very attractive.
He's okay alone
It might be crazy to hear at 18, but at 30 or older, it's very appealing. A person who is comfortable alone with himself, who can find interesting activities for himself alone (I'm not talking about social networks) who does not whine at every step that he is alone - very attractive.
He can recognize and appreciate attractive traits in other people.
He compliments, noticing something attractive in a person, while with the help of kind words he does not try to resort to manipulation. He speaks sincerely and it becomes just charming. It is important to distinguish between the usual emphasis on appearance and specific and specific praise!
His actions speak more than words
A person can talk a lot and do practically nothing. But how attractive is one who does not scatter promising phrases, but proves everything with actions! In addition, one is attractive who does not ring at every step about his successes and achievements, but simply radiates an aura of calmness and self-confidence.
He accepts his weirdness
A person who is not afraid to declare their oddities is incredibly charming. Let's say he dresses in something bright and unusual, loves comics, or loves to eat pickles with cream! When a person is not ashamed of such characteristics, he attracts others.
He is not afraid to be vulnerable.
No one is perfect in this world, and a person who does not always try to look confident in himself, and can admit his weaknesses in front of others, showing vulnerability, damn attracts others.
He doesn't reveal all of his thoughts
A person who is in no hurry to pour out everything that he thinks about a particular situation, in the eyes of others, like a volume with an interesting story! He is mysterious, interesting and unusual. However, such mystery is in moderation, because a too closed person seems to others aloof and cold.
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