It is sometimes very difficult for a person to understand why he is constantly haunted by failures, where suddenly anxiety, excitement and any fears come from without a good reason. If you are familiar with this, then experts recommend delving into family history.
Let's say you have never had any stressful or traumatic events in your life. But you often experience symptoms such as sudden heartbeat, sweating, tremors of the limbs, tension throughout the body, depression, phobias, etc. Try to go back to family history, do your research to find the source of the unpleasant symptoms. Perhaps in the past there were some events that your relative committed and thereby projected it onto their descendants. Regardless of ourselves, the "memory of ancestors" pushes us to repeat, both pleasant and traumatic experiences. It is very strange, but sometimes the events that happen to our ancestors in the past lead to an underestimation of the quality of our life.
Here are signs that you have to "pay" for the actions of your ancestors
Anniversary Syndrome
View all the important dates in your life: birthdays of relatives, illness, death, wedding days, etc. You may notice repetitions and sync!
Specific weight of the name
Our name is the foundation of our identity. And the patronymic and surname complement the name. It is the name of a person that can determine his place in a three-dimensional coordinate system - history, space and time. If the same names are present in the family, it is worth considering the essence of their choice and the hopes associated with them.
Relationships and functions in the family
It is important to ask relatives about family relationships, about people who were included in the family circle. It is necessary to compare relationships in different generations. Sometimes parents themselves absorb destructive roles, and then pass them on to their children.
Family secrets
It is unlikely that relatives told you about all the family secrets that are in your family. This, too, cannot be written off - imprisonment, incest, rape, termination of pregnancy, mental illness. All this can be negatively projected on the descendants, and manifest in the strangeness of their actions, anxiety and fears.
Generic customs
Sometimes the family has certain customs and rituals that hold its members together. But all this can also affect the development of the personality of the descendants, or rather, limit it, slow it down. Sometimes this negatively affects the psychological well-being of a person, and can produce various unpleasant symptoms.
Accidents
This also includes any serious illness, as well as the sudden death of ancestors, miscarriages, etc. Perhaps this is all repeated from generation to generation.
The presence of unfinished mourning in the family
For example, some of the deceased ancestors were not mourned, not buried, not buried, etc. Restless souls can negatively influence their descendants.
Dead mother syndrome
This includes the loss of the mother at an early age, the mother's postpartum depression, and her indifference to her own child.
Substitute child
If a child in the family is born as compensation for someone, for example, a deceased brother / sister, husband, mother / father, or another child, this also negatively affects the descendants, even after a lot generations.
If you find such "signs" in your family, then do not be upset. It's not a problem! If you know the reason for your failures, then you can simply grasp and break the thread that connects you to your ancestors. The very thread that does not allow you to live in peace and be happy.
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