It is clear that it is not for me to judge that one man is good and the other is bad. But all the same, I am a woman, and on behalf of all women I want to find out and determine how you can tell a good man from a bad one. Well, let's assume that by "good" I mean noble, honest and suitable for a serious relationship. So let's start from this!
In fact, many women get very burned precisely because they cannot tell a good man from a bad one. And some even like these "bad guys", because of whom normal, good and adequate "walk the forest." And I will not advise you to change your mind. In this article, I will help women distinguish a good man from a bad man. It was written not by me personally, but with the help of the tips of a psychologist. Remember, not "all men are goats", as the girls who are repeatedly offended by "bad guys" say!
The difference between a bad and a good man
- A bad man doesn't respect women. Moreover, such a feature can be both open and hidden. It's easy to recognize. Men constantly criticize women, demean and insult women about their character, behavior and appearance. Such misogynists. If you, too, are faced with the fact that a man constantly criticizes you, then rest assured that this is he, a real mudak! Here you can add that such men have a fairly high self-esteem. "I am a star" and the rest are just dust. They never think about other people's interests, and love only themselves. I must say right away that there are such ladies among women too!
- A bad man never apologizes. No matter what happens, even if he is to blame, he will not apologize! He brought him to tears, humiliated, insulted, committed an act that really shows that he is wrong - if there is no apology, then everything is clear. Such men believe that apologizing is generally a waste of time, and it is beneath their own dignity. They are the best, and they will be forgiven and just like that! If there is also such a man next to you who sincerely believes that you can just forgive him for his beautiful eyes, then you can only sympathize.
- A bad man likes to brag about even small deeds. Yes, what is there to boast about, he will beat himself in the chest with a fist because he ran for bread or took out the trash! He will remember for a year that he once bought you a chocolate bar, paid your bill in a cafe or arranged a romantic dinner. Do you like these men, or did you really not pay attention to it? Such men are very demanding of their women, and in return they give almost nothing!
Well, in general, of course, you can give many examples and distinctive features of a bad man. For example, a bad man constantly lies, lies even when everyone understands that he is lying. A bad man cheats, raises his hand to his partner, although all this can be added to the point with a disrespectful attitude towards a woman.
Good and bad are a little different characteristics. Every woman and every man has a set of desirable traits in a partner, a set, on the contrary, not desirable traits, but with which one can accept, and a set of those qualities that they will never tolerate. And all of these sets are completely different, and their number is also different, and even they are in these 3 different categories. Some are more tolerant and indiscriminate, some less. Someone is completely idealist and egoist, and does not tolerate even the slightest flaws. It's also about the woman herself ...
In fact, almost all women go through relationships with bad men. But you should not be upset, negative experience is also an experience, useful and necessary. It is worth learning to be a mature person, then you will be able to find a language with any person and meet a worthy man. No, you, of course, can build relationships with a bad man, no one has the right to judge you. The choice is only yours, dear women!
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