If you are tired of tolerating the rudeness of a colleague, neighbor or relative, then use these tips to adequately answer it.
There are people who do not miss the opportunity to be rude, rude, sarcastic. In general, they always spoil the mood. Let's find out how you can put a rude person in his place in one phrase, because you can't fix a boor and a rude person, so you need to correctly reflect the blow and learn to communicate with such!
Joel Austin said that when you are rude you should just smile back. However, it is quite difficult to do this, but avoiding communication with rude people is no less difficult. There will certainly be an "ulcer" on the path of life that will ruin the whole mood.
We respond to rudeness with dignity!
Say "Thank you!"
If you are reprimanded, rude, rude, just say "thank you" confidently and calmly. So you will simply discourage your interlocutor, and his anger will decrease. By the way, so you still show your wisdom! Well, look, you were told something bad, you kind of listened, took note of it and thanked you for your remark. And most importantly, you did not get into a skirmish, chopping off rudeness in the bud. The angry man was left with his own anger, and he could not throw it all out.
Say "I appreciate your opinion!"
A very worthy answer. After all, a person who is rude, he just himself has internal problems, and you are not to blame for this. Therefore, your reaction will only benefit you. And evil will again remain with its evil! By the way, rude people react to such an answer with respect. They don't need to continue the conversation with you because you have not stooped to their level.
Say "The conversation is over!"
If you are very offended by the words of the interlocutor, just let him know that you want to get out of the conversation, that your conversation is over! Do not argue, do not prove anything, you can refer to some of your sudden cases and leave.
Ask why your opponent thought it was important and if he really wants you to answer
Most often, people are rude to those who allow them such behavior towards themselves. Therefore, if you ask your opponent if he wants your answer, most likely he will hesitate and stop developing the topic. If he says he wants an answer from you, just ask him if he had a difficult day.
Say "It might offend me ..."
An ironic phrase. What you say will make it clear to your opponent that you do not take his harsh words to heart. It is unlikely that the rude person will continue to be rude, knowing that his words do not offend you at all.
Say "You are right!"
Again, a phrase that will discourage the opponent. He tried so hard to hurt you, to poke your nose into some kind of dirt, to insult, and you take and agree to his words! He wanted a dispute, a scandal, but nothing came of it, the conflict was settled.
Say "You always have something bad to say!"
With these words, you seem to reflect rudeness and rudeness, and your opponent will be blown away. He expected a completely different reaction. Perhaps he will even think about it, because people think that he says everything only bad, maybe then he is a bad person ...
Say "I love myself, but I love you too!"
This phrase is suitable during a conflict with loved ones. You need to say it sincerely, the person will be shocked by your answer, and stop being rude!
Just smile
Laugh, laughter prolongs life, helps to cope with nervous tension and disarm the opponent. This is like healthy self-irony, which will cause awkwardness in the boor and take him by surprise.
If you are rude and rude - do not take the words to heart. This is their anger and their rudeness, let them stay with them, and now you know what to answer the boor in order to get out of the situation with dignity.
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