Each person or interesting, or boring to others. The latter, according to psychologists, are not able to improvise, do not know how to talk and not have original opinion on one issue or another. And what other qualities have a boring person? Let's investigate.
Aims to be an interesting one. And everyone can be an interesting, simple to someone it does take more effort, but someone - less.
But not to become a man-hypnotic, try to avoid:
1. unbalanced dialogues. This is when he says, only one, a long and tedious. And it is necessary to seek the optimal rhythm between speaking and listening.
2. Lack of attention to the hints and the "body language" of others. Boring people simply do not notice, they are interested in other or not. Meanwhile, many simply do not have enough tact to terminate uninteresting conversation.
3. Inability to evaluate the event from different perspectives. Demonstrate a sense of humor. Remember: the ability to make other people laugh is one of the main manifestations of "cognitive flexibility".
4. Situations, when you have nothing to say. Say goodbye to the interlocutor on time, do not look painful to talk about. It is always noticeable.
5. monotony. Boring people always do the same thing: go to the bar every weekend, constantly in someone or something frustrated, do not understand the other, etc. etc. A variety will give you, including new topics for talk, communicate.
6. The lack of an opinion. If you do not appreciate the world around critically, unlikely to be able to offer an interesting topic of conversation companion.
Remember also that boring people do not know how to tell a good story. And it is necessary to engage in the conversation of new counterparts, acquire new acquaintances. By the way, according to one study conducted by researchers from South Carolina, a man who knew how to describe interesting events (or even to invent them) were much more attractive to women, especially those of the opposite sex who are not telling stories able.
To avoid being branded as boring and uninteresting, constantly improve their skills and expand horizons. It makes it easier than it seems. So act!
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