If your close friend, which "in theory" should be shoulder and the support, in fact, constantly deceives and manipulates constantly delivers other reasons for discomfort, it's time to say goodbye. Such people are called "toxic", and above you really in danger "poison."
These "friends" are easily recognizable by low self-esteem, self-centered and constant envy to all and sundry. They are passive-aggressive style of behavior, they are unable to be happy for others, to empathize. With these in his life faced by many, but few drops "happiness" to make friends. And recognize the "poisonous" effect of this friendship can not at once. Often signs of "toxicity" weakly perceptible, but know they still can:
1. We have to give more than you receive. Such people are always about something ask, but they are denied even a small favor. This applies to everything, even to talk. About his life "toxic" friend ready to talk for hours, but when you give a hint about their own affairs / issues as they "urgently need to escape."
2. You do not trust her. And trust - is the foundation of friendship. What are you a man who can not be relied upon?
3. No joy from her calls. If you cringe every time when the displayed name "favorite friends" on the phone screen, why do these chores? Is it not better to be friends with someone? Calls to loved ones should bring joy, even when you can not answer. And it you want?
4. You never imagine not like it when she's around. Some people (those - "toxic") has a surprising property - its own toxicity and distribute to others. If you think that in the presence of a "friend" you start to drink more rude, gossip, etc., run! Otherwise, you have all chances to eventually become "it." And just stay "at it" - not the most enviable fate.
5. She says bad things about you behind your back. Of course, to discuss human "for the eyes" - not a crime. But blasphemy is always absolutely toxic to others. "Peremyvanie bones" rubs people suffer bad - are beginning to worry, nervous. If a stress-free life Presnya for you - please - if not, it's time to say "goodbye" toxic girlfriend.
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