Many women are constantly resorting to the advice of psychologists. In particular, this happens when problems arise in the relationship with the man. But it is worth noting that not all councils can improve the situation.
There are common recommendations of psychologists, which practically do not work in practice or have the opposite effect. Today we look at some of them.
to quit work
Women often complain about the lack of money in the family. Psychologists advise them to stop work, so that the man began to earn more. It seemed that the "wise women" and arrive. But in practice, such a system does not work.
Refusal to work will not be a motivation for men. If the first time, he will try to find a way out, then later he simply lost interest in his wife.
The division of money
Some women do not understand how the money should be divided in the family. On the advice of psychologists money women should belong only to her, and finance men can be divided in half.
Is it correct? In most cases, it will negatively affect relations. But if a man offers himself to do so, a woman may well agree.
Independence
Psychologists say that the "wise woman" should be able to fend for itself. Only here the man can not feel comfortable with this iron lady. It is not necessary to resort to the advice of psychologists and behave courageously.
A woman should at least sometimes seem fragile, the partner can feel like a real hero. And if the next man will be steadfast Lady, he quickly cease to feel the defender.
Ideal woman
Some psychologists insist that the woman must be perfect. That is, it must conform to the requirements of his men and constantly courted him around. In no case do not need to do so. This could end very badly.
Ideal to be still will not work. But a man can feel that something was wrong. Especially women without flaws quickly bored its partners, or "sit them on your neck."
Lack of support
Every man needs the support, which he could have a mistress. Only psychologists disagree with this. They point out that the lack of ongoing support will motivate them to great achievements. But here they are absolutely wrong.
Not having received the necessary charge of positive emotions from his partner, he can find inspiration in other women. This situation may result in failure for even the strong family. It is necessary to motivate partner and give him good support on a regular basis.
