1. Do you live together for more than 5 years
Five years ago he proposed to live together, you were very happy and thought that's it, finally! A family. But it was not there. The years go by and marriage proposals you have not received. In the course are the classic "excuses": now it's buy it.
Repair does not stop the machine break down, constantly need to buy something new.
If he wanted to - be married, and all the problems would be gone by the wayside. In any case they are not going anywhere, the problem will always be. But when a man wants you to officially become "his woman", it is best to do it.
2. You have separate budget
Then I managed without comments. But I'd like to write about it.
You live with a man, but your earnings are hidden from each other. Yes, he is buying you gifts, and sometimes leads to a restaurant or a movie, but that's it. In his case he will not devote you, at some point it also decided not to devote.
This is not a family life, this neighborhood. Family life implies total family income and general expenses so you can work together to buy something and share with each other.
So if you have a separate budget can not see you from the man's offer to share the life of him.
3. He shall not be responsible for you
You do not feel that you can rely on a man with whom you live. It seems that he does not deny ever, but by and large - it's always like a compulsion. Initiative it does not show and did not show ever.
If you there are any problems, he usually tries to pretend that he was very sorry, but does not offer assistance. Regrets, sympathy, but is not responsible.
This feature should alert you. After all, a man, if takes you to your team, automatically becomes your ally and support. And if you understand that it does not help you, then chances are you are not in his team.
4. He does not want children
When you first met, he told you about it, but you did not take him seriously. I thought, like most girls, it is temporary and he will change his mind and wants from you children.
I hasten to disappoint you, men are usually the first year or two, very much in love and want children from the object of his love. Some time later, the feelings subside, and if he was not actually ready for children, that after a while it vryatli change. And most likely, he does not want children not because sooner, namely you do not want.
If you do not want to waste time, ask him this question. And if you hear something from the series: too early, you have to buy something and then it is most likely he is not planning to have children with you.
5. He was a confirmed bachelor
Well, then do not comment.
A man who believes that the stamp in the passport does not change anything, and it so well, their opinions change except under certain conditions and pressure on your part. And whether or not to make you human?
This fact can not be afraid, if you are very convinced "bachelorette", and prepared for the fact that one day, he meets a girl on the way, for which he would be willing to change their beliefs.
Do not waste your time in vain - ask directly. And if the answer is you do not like - go on his way.
There are positive examples, but their percentage is not very high. Therefore, it is better not to wait, and put a condition as possible and explain your desire to live in stability.
And if nothing changes to the timeline, you can safely go and look for a more determined man.
Because of the lost time will be very, very sorry. Much more pitiful than a lost man.
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