Recently, more and more often we hear a new term - a normal woman.
In our time, the woman often afflict the accusations:
Oh, her 30, and she is still not married! Everything is building a career! A watch is ticking!
Or, oh, yes she gave birth at 18, and continues to give birth to them... where so many children ...
She's the youngest child is 7 years old, went to school, and she's still sitting at home - an idle. All of them work, but she can not.
Or so she was sitting at home with your child earns, it has nothing to do! It is better to be a child engaged. Why then give birth?
Or, oh yes, she gave birth, and almost from the hospital to work out... a strange kind of why she needed a child is not clear.
This list of accusations and discussions can be continued for a long time. Every person judges in his position and his views on life.
They impose their opinions to others of a normal life, a normal upbringing of children, normal relations and argue that here there is also a normal woman.
And what they are normal women?
Probably everyone condemns believes that normal - it was he and his life right. That since he lives - is the standard of normality and the only way to be accepted by society.
You will be blamed for everything, all my life. That dress is not the skirt is not short of age. That dress as a mouse. Affordable, impregnable. The cold, too hot. Modest, obsession.
So many claims and so many expectations of women listen to in my entire life. About the education of children, I generally keep quiet. This is another story.
And in fact, condemn, they who? The same ordinary people. And their "normality" - that is their vision, and for someone of their life and behavior is not "normal".
We do not live in order to match what that criteria. We all have our dreams, desires and education.
Everyone lives to fit in the first place, its principles.
And yet, and most importantly, we live to be happy, and do not bless their surrounding normal.
I do not tire of repeating - that condemn and you will have to teach until his death. But that does not mean you have to listen to anyone who suddenly felt that you live like something is wrong.
This for him is not so, but as you live, and not to him. Your right to choose the comfort zone and normal that you like.
And enough already normality driven into the frame. Each is its own if it is not contrary to the Criminal Code, it is possible to assume that the person lives normally.
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