Divorce statistics in our country takes frightening proportions. More than half of marriages break up for one reason or another.
As a rule, it is families with children.
A few days ago, were visiting their parents, we drank tea and talked. The conversation turned to modern families, divorces.
Usually we hear that this is the reason for the divorce:
The betrayal of one of the parties
Husband drinks, beats, does not earn
Wives, too, are not saints, and them, too, go away when they drink
Like many families, my parents had to go through a lot of things, and there was no work, and there was nothing. And dad broke my mother is not an angel, too happened, I wanted to drop everything.
But stopped them a few factors. And, as if that was not sad - it is not love each other.
The first factor. Previously, it was a shame to divorce.
The woman was ashamed to be alone with the child and be divorced.
Man was ashamed to be diluted in the status.
Yes, before it was a shame.
The second factor - is housing.
Young families separated apartment (one child - one-bedroom, two opposite-sex children - two bedroom). Now there is a mortgage, but often, you can always leave and leave pay for its second half, quit and forget. And so many and do.
Before, people were more tolerant of each other, and if so, and went to the registrar, the latter tried to keep the family together, do not make hasty conclusions.
Now this is easier. Condemn not likely to be too much divorce has become commonplace.
Therefore, do not think young people are the future. And the right would they think of themselves. What about children? After all, they give birth to 2-3 children, then divorced, give birth to new families. Children look at it. Then, repeat the scenario when they become adults. And so the circle.
The reason for this divorce to banality is simple - permissiveness and lack of shame. As well as the irresponsibility and inability to solve problems.
From the problems already run into a new relationship, and there will be exactly the same. Because you do not learn to solve problems, you get to a certain stage, and as soon as it becomes difficult - turn around and leave.
If men before marrying, to think a head, and not love. If they saw a man in front of him and knew it was a living person, and it can be different and life is long and is not predictable.
If something goes wrong, we do not want to admit that the choice of a husband / wife, we were wrong. Love eclipsed mind, and when it passed, it was not unbearable to endure this "stranger" next.
So, choose their own people, and before you run the registry office and have children, consider and weigh all the life you have one!
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