If a man has these qualities, then no your love and care will not help him. One right decision - to run without looking back!
Alcoholic and prone to other addictions.
Often we hear - without me, he will be gone, and I must help him. He's not that he's a good, but this stuff spoils his life.
Remember, if a person wants it to get rid of any addiction spoiling his life. And if he values your relationship, he would give everything without thinking.
But if it comes down to, to complain and get bogged down every time, causing you pain, then there have to run without looking back. You play with him at his own game and you are just as dependent on it. Only your illness - trying to help someone who does not want to escape.
"Womanizer" and the man to assert themselves at the expense of women.
He chose you got married, you may even have given birth to children. But, after a while you start to notice that his attraction to women is not gone, it was like before you revelers and so remained, just temporarily paused.
You start looking for problems in itself, you komplektuete, compare themselves with women, for whom he cares, you become angry and irritable. A man pours oil on the fire, carefully pointing out to you on your shortcomings, openly manipulating you.
Do not try to fix it myself (if it is certainly not about the extra 30 kg, the complete absence of personal care and hygiene). Do not bury in the complexes do not listen to everything you say.
Love yourself for who you are and understand: if the man ever look at other women, it is not so bad and you are not beautiful. This is it - a womanizer. And he does not respect you and your feelings. He does not care that you hurt and it is not nice.
The best way out of this situation - to leave and find a man who will love you and will not allow themselves to humiliate you in this behavior.
Tyrant who dismiss his hands.
The first time he hit you, a year after the beginning of the relationship. First you were taken aback and decided they would never forgive me. Then, you have thought and have come to realize that they themselves are to blame, he could not resist and you got what they deserved.
Once you have calmed himself and decided that he would never allow himself to behave this way, he found a new reason. And so on to infinity.
Are you looking for a compromise, losing ground, reconciled, and he continues to look for reasons and to dismiss his hands.
Remember, man has ever lifted a hand to you, do it again. Because it is a point of no return. This is not love and respect. It is low for men. And it is not excusable for a woman - forgive that.
Respect yourself enough to get up and leave after the first blow.
And finally. Any relationship causing you emotional pain and suffering - it is not love, and dependence. Find the strength to love yourself and get away from destructive relationships. And only then you can expect a happy life.
Thank you for reading. If you are interested in such items, please put your finger up and subscribe to the channel :) This will help me to understand the relevance and continue to develop them.
