I told the story institute girlfriend who lived with her husband of 10 years, and he found himself another, and for a long time tormented by the two women.
The situation is instructive, many will benefit from reading this text, and draw conclusions.
HISTORY
My ex-husband has long been a heavy drinker, periodically bludgeoned me, and he had two girls, whom he met in his spare time.
Of these girls, I learned recently, and could not recover from the shock.
Now you know how you behave when you find out that her husband was cheating on you? I thought that I go, right this minute. That I can never forgive the betrayal that I could never even close is a man who changed me.
But it so happened that I lived, trying to keep the relationship and in every way to gratify the man who wiped on my feet, and a long time ago I did not like.
As a result, the fact to cope with the shock, to recover and to find the strength to get away from her ex-husband took me 1.5 years. Another six months left on it, and decide to file for divorce. I was morally difficult to do it because he did not want to let me go, despite the fact that we no longer lived together.
He shouted from every corner of his love for me, but still met with the girls. Strangely it was everything.
I think every woman that vary, know the feeling. She is important, every time to see the evidence that it is better than those with whom she change, and this can only prove himself apostate and this vicious circle.
Every time you unconsciously look for confirmation from him that you are better, rather than to close this topic and move on.
I was able to close and had found self-confidence in other things, as soon as I was able to do it around me started there is a decent man who helped me, cared for me and raised my confidence, killed the former husband.
The need to recharge from the husband I went, and it was held, and a love that was not love, and the desire to prove that I am better than they are.
For myself out of this situation, I concluded that I could not leave, not because I like to, but because they wanted to prove that I can love and I'm better than they are.
It is a complex and in the first place to address them.
And, yes, one more thing, if you do not go from the human torments you, the question we must ask you: you all right? Why you are in a relationship with someone who makes fun of you?
And do not say that there is no place to go. You can always find a way out. Look, think about it, and not on how to return the former attitude, I commend you to the men.
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