Not all of us can not find the other half, which was formed to complete idyll in relations. This occurs regardless of age and experience. Many suffer both physical and moral humiliation against themselves. Why is it happening? I suggest to understand.
People who are exposed to in relation to the moral and even physical violence is very weak people. And sometimes it happens that such people have good self-esteem, they are endowed with wit and wisdom, but even such qualities can not protect them from the tyranny of partner. These relationships are destructive. They completely inhibit the person's identity, transforming it into a weak-willed, make it even more weak and timid.
Partner may have a different person to abuse the trust: verbally, financially, emotionally or sexually. And that constant humiliation in either direction over time, lowers self-esteem of man and destroys his self-confidence. From this relationship man completely loses the ability to exercise their own choices, which will reflect his interests. human feelings become alienated. And he even stopped to chat with their friends and family people, completely lost confidence in the family. By the way, these are the closest people can do nothing to guess, but even if they are aware of such relationships and trying to help a person, he becomes violent, or asks to stay out of his life, fearing the negative side partner.
Many women who get into such difficult and unhappy relationships in the family home, too humiliated. Life with partners at the outset seems to them "saving around" from their loved ones, but eventually becomes a violent partner. From these relationships, women do not go away, because to go back to the walls of the house, where they do not understand, nobody wants. So live, they humble themselves, cry, just to survive, trying to establish a little family relationships.
Astrologers say that there are people who are attracted to aggressive partner on a subconscious level. These people are under the influence of certain planets or incompatible zodiac sign.
How did realize that you pull to the wrong people?
Man constantly pulls it to the poor people at the time, both the sympathetic and good, they do not pay attention. If a person intends to seeking such a relationship, because he knows that he will get bored with the successful and stable partner in all respects. Somehow, it seems that it is aggressive and even violent person can take care how about yourself, and about the partner. It can attract idea to tame a wild animal, and man all the forces trying to start his affection and love to melt his hard heart. Often these girls see attitude towards their mothers from fathers. People voluntarily seek those relationships in which they will be bad and painful.
What to do?
Break off relations immediately! Seek help from loved ones to leave, to change phone number, etc. Try to regain self-esteem, strength and self-confidence. Spend more time with their loved ones, who wish you well. In any case, you have to want it a little bit! The desire to escape from the unhappy relationship, sooner or later will help you once again become self-sufficient and happy person!
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