Family therapists who encounter in their work with the parent-child relationship defined 6 golden rules to help raise a child happy. How to raise a successful person in the future?
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Appreciate his personality
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Parents need to realize that the child - an individual. He was not part of us and our continuation. You can not live their lives for it. He must learn to make choices, take decisions, make mistakes.
Grow with your child
Do not consider yourself wise child. To grow and develop along with it, including the skill of the parent. The task of parents to prepare children for adult life without, that is, to teach him to make decisions, to make choices and take responsibility for the consequences of the choice.
Take your child for who he is,
It may be different from your appearance and behavior, he may have very different interests and hobbies, but your job is to make it so. It is particularly important to do so in the first years of a child's life, when formed the basic confidence in the world
kid's self-esteem. Decision will depend on his attitude to himself and to the world.
define rules
Without rules, children can not live. The task of parents is clearly to establish the boundaries of what is permitted. Rules for the child make the world more understandable, and therefore more secure. Rules should be clear, be reviewed as the child grows, every ban argues but also for violation punish wisely.
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educate yourself
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A significant part of the behaviors the child receives from the family at an early age, simply by imitating their parents. Therefore, we must work on ourselves and set an example for your child. If you bring up the words, but it does not work, do not be surprised that the child acts a hair's breadth as you.
Communicate with your child
As a child laid a person's identity. Therefore, it is important not to miss this moment. As often as possible communicate with the child. To do this, use the joint activities, such as cooking, going to the museum, mark any progress toddler respect him and be friendly to him, listen to the child, talk about your feelings for him, hug at least 5 times day. And you bring up a happy man.
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