Recently, parents show a hyper custody of their children. They assume substantially all of the responsibilities that should be borne by the children. What for? Are you afraid that the children will not be able to do something? You do not trust them? But understand that you have a non-automatic children grow up to know that all the problems for them may decide to mom and dad.
Why do children homework to the senior class? Why Build a portfolio for them, to know that their classmates asked a child? You pull each of their children with almost 6 months razvivashki, then hectic in various circles. Of course, the views of children no one asks, because boys need sports, girls need dance, art school is developing in the child the perfect etc.
Please leave your baby alone! Take care of your life, development, relationships! You yourself make of their children completely dependancy lazy!
Think about having a child in your family, you become extremely mom and dad, nurses, support staff, but forgot that you are husband and wife! And you actually believe that because you are doing your children happy?
Do you think that showing a child custody, you will help them to grow successful and prosperous? Are you sure you grow your behavior, you are happy people? But how can a person be happy if he does not live in a happy family where Mom and Dad do not have time for personal life, do not spend time together?
Do not bring up children, start with yourself! Your children will copy your behavior, and live like you. Instead, it would have the power to thrust the child into the circle, ask, and wants to do it himself, dream about what he likes. Let the child learns himself responsible for their actions, for the mark of purity and clothes collected for the portfolio.
Look for yourself, your interests, go in those that makes you happy. Children need parents happy, live for yourself, and then to children. So you can grow them happy and self-sufficient people.
