Many parents do not even think that the more they give their children, the fewer children tend to be independent and in general there is little they can do. Of course, we all wish our children only happiness, but sometimes our overprotection, excessive care and helps make one of dependent and lazy people. What to do? Try to follow these tips!
5 tips to prepare the children of independence
1.Physical independence
Begin to notice what is the goal of your child. Yourself to make the first step, remove the socks, go to the store, etc. Once you see that the child can do something yourself - let me, let them do it.
2.Podvizhnost
How can I spend more time with the child in the street, go hiking, make a note of it on the sports section. Mobility kills laziness!
3.Good atmosphere in the family
It is important! If the family are all constantly swear, nervous, what we can talk about independence? Your children need a home where you want to return to where he was waiting for and love! Try to leave the front door to the apartment all the failures and problems!
4.Obschenie family
It's so great to gather the whole family and, for example, to discuss the previous day, remembering funny stories from life, yes, even just to play a board game or to dinner all together at the same table!
5.Chetkie beyond what is permitted and the uniqueness of your actions
If you are banned from the child to do something, and then suddenly you felt sorry for him and you have given up the slack - you know, you are your own undermines the authority. Should be a clear framework of what is permitted, that child will not cross. And if you make a promise, or banned, your word must be firm!
And here are some fad that you should do:
- always take the side of the child;
- Do not interrupt when the child says something;
- Maintain a healthy lifestyle;
- do not look at school grades;
- Praise the child for success and do not scold for mistakes;
- do not lie to the child;
- Do not be ashamed and do not humiliate;
- talk to children on all sorts of topics;
- do not check homework;
- Reduce the amount of stress in the family;
- visit to cultural sites child;
- Do not compare your child with others.
