I used to always think that with age, almost nothing changes in men. Well, yes, health is not so strong anymore, wrinkles, but I have never heard from the representatives of the stronger sex something like: "I'm old." It is women who really grow old over the years, and this is why they run to beauticians, plastic surgeons and other wizards who correct their appearance. And men, on the contrary, with age become only more attractive, more courageous, more interesting.
But, it turns out, not everything is so simple. Once, a friend of mine, who was divorced a long time ago, told me an interesting story. She climbed into some dating site, flipped through the profiles of men, and, among a large number of strangers, she recognized a familiar face. It was her classmate who hadn't changed at all in the 20 years since he left school. On the contrary, he even looked younger and looked like a young boy! An acquaintance with him wrote off, of course, asked him a question about what he had done with his face, but the man became all to deny, although everything was perfectly visible there: no wrinkles, no bruises under the eyes, but nothing that would say that he's 37!
So, here's what I'm up to. To the fact that in fact a lot of things in men change over the years, and they, like us, do not want to grow old, and they also have a different attitude to many things! And now let's take a closer look: how do men change with age?
They no longer feel young
Yes, according to statistics, men already after 31 years old begin to feel middle-aged. They recall their youth, say that they would change a lot, regret that they did not realize a lot in their lives. All this grows every year, and results in a midlife crisis. Someone plunges into some kind of hobby or starts playing sports, someone hits drunken parties, and someone is getting younger. In general, everything is very difficult there! At the same time, men try to hide their negative thoughts, which are bursting them, from others, and try to pretend that everything is normal with them.
They become more critical of their appearance.
Approximately 88% of men change their body with age, and 70% change their attitude towards their body! From here, a lot of closed clothes appear, which can somehow hide extra pounds, lack of cubes and other shortcomings.
They become more critical of their mothers
Around the age of 45, men begin to be more critical of their mothers. They recall their childhood, recall rudeness in their address, criticize aged parents for their clumsiness and sometimes helplessness. And in general, men are changing their attitude towards all women-mothers. Negative phrases appear: “he spoils his children too much”, “he brings up badly”, “does not like children”, etc.
They begin to accept and understand their fathers
Many men after 45 years old note that they always lacked the attention of their father in their youth. But at a young age, guys don’t really need paternal love, but at a more mature age they find insight, the need for communication increases. There is acceptance even of a father who left the family or cheated on his mother. It's all her fault anyway! In other words, with age, for men, the attitude towards fathers becomes better, and towards mothers worse.
They are more critical of women
Young men are more calm about women's shortcomings, turn a blind eye to many things, or do not pay attention at all, their attitude towards the entire female sex is more positive. Already after 30 years, 25% of men begin to speak more critically about all the ladies, and after 45, about 70% become picky.
Conclusion: everyone changes with age, both women and men! Men can deny this, referring to female hysteria, saying that with age we we become grumpy, importunate, shabby, that it all seems to us that we ourselves have something there invented. But now we know why they say so!
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