It has long been gone such a tradition that a woman in marriage takes her husband's name. Despite the fact that after a long road ahead for the replacement of documents, the young wife's hesitant to take this step. After all, so do it! And not only in our country.
For example, in England from the IX century, adopted a kind of doctrine, which is that a woman does not have an independent identity in legal terms. Therefore, the girl gave birth father's name, and when marriage - spouse's name.
If you think about it a ritual to talk about the subordination of women, first her father and then her husband. The tradition lasted such a long time, despite the spread of homosexuality and same-sex marriage, a combination of people.
Nowadays, more and more women leave the father's name, ie, maiden. Although the Company believes that the family should have one name. But for many women it is a serious dilemma, because you have to, as it were, to choose between her family and her husband. And of women are expected to sacrifice their interests for the sake of family well-being. At that time, if a woman prefers to keep her maiden name, it is regarded as her selfishness, which is contrary to the foundations.
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And in general, if a woman wants to leave his name, the society begins to consider her not ready for marriage and family.
The tradition is to take her husband's name goes back to early Christianity. His act, she showed that she respects her husband, and is ready to do anything for his new family. In the days of serfdom landlords even appropriated his surname serf, and then were married serf girls, change their names. So it was convenient to keep a record of the shower.
Free people have the last name most of his studies, and women to join with them in marriage, too, received the same name. In Soviet times, women have become more "circumspect" in this regard, and probably in order to prove a role in public life, often left her maiden name.
Now in Russia, if after marriage a woman takes her husband's name, it must change the passport in Within a month of the wedding date, otherwise it will have to pay a fine of about 2000 rubles. In addition to a passport will have to change and other important documents (insurance policy, driver license, credit cards, VAT, etc.), so the women think, and whether so much bother?
Women come up with a lot of reasons not to take her husband's name:
1. Do not want to part with her maiden name. In fact, many stars of show business do not change the name, because, for example, the father was a well-known personality. Well, or relatives were asked not to change, or the memory of loved ones, etc. And it happens that the man born daughters, so one of them asked not to change the name in order to continue the race with a maiden name.
2. Do not want to take the dissonant name. Well, the names are different, some of them are very funny.
3. Do not want to bother with the documents because have to run the chain of command. However, experience has shown that not all so terrible! But if, say, you have a business, loans, rebates and bonuses it is decorated with the surname, which was before her marriage, then it is worth considering, as if all this is not to lose.
Anyway, we should not forget that the choice of name - is your own business and your personal life! And no one should change your opinion or your parents, or the parents of her husband, nor society. Therefore, we must consciously choose to further not run into problems.
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