The child often indulges in, out of curiosity, can climb somewhere, drop things, to break the dishes... I have a younger sister, brothers, and gets them from the senior. And baby you teach only good? Scolding or forgiving?
Child disbanded and uncontrollable? Or is it with the words relativesYou just confused. How best to deal with them, and how to be with relatives who are doing it and you comments about education?
The child is important to get the love and support of adults who create a sense of security. If the child does not feel it, and, moreover, is often depressed, it can lead to a number of unpleasant consequences - low self-esteem, loss of faith in their own strength, lack of initiative, lack of respect for close ...
What if the child does not listen
In order to avoid even greater disagreements and conflicts, you and your husband will have to first separate gently and tactfully speak to the child, as well as relatives, whom he may have caused trouble on spoken words and Event situations.
If you manage to convey to the relatives that their words can hurt your child and a bad influence on the formation of his world view, consider it a victory!
Perhaps the family will be able to hear you and will begin to soften educational methods. At the same time you have to become a translator moralizing messages from your family to your child.
If relatives are ready to receive your support, come up with phrases that would suit all parties to dialogue and would not be insulting to the kid, teach him to ask permission to take things seniors.
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The zeal of the older children to younger
In the case of younger children and the older, ostensibly to indulge, there is a trivial jealousy, often take time to an older child who vrednichaet. Get typically devote 15 minutes a day all the children individually. This time, spend only some one of the children without foreign desirable productive. It helps painting anti-stress colorings, board games (dominoes, bingo, Uno, Action), the joint crafts with their hands.
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