Getting married, every woman dreams of a strong family and a loving husband. But the reality is different. Once loving husband begins to mistreat his wife, can humiliate and insult her. How to resist?
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Why bad husband belongs to his wife?
He stopped loving her. Love is gone, but admit it can not all couples. Extinction feelings characteristic of all relationships at different stages. Only one pair of this crisis are successful, while others - not.He has another. But admit it to his wife, he can not. And the insults and humiliations he tries to force her to give up first.
Wife insulted her husband. Woman applies disrespectful to the spouse may say it nasty, checks his pockets and a telephone in every way it controls.
He allegedly due to his wife. Such men are very low self-esteem and raise it, he can only one way - to humiliate another person.
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How to resist a bad relationship?
First you need to understand why her husband began to treat his wife as an empty space? If she had insulted and humiliated and ill-treated him, then you need to change the attitude. It is not so easy to do, but the results are worth it.I need to talk to her husband. Perhaps he has no idea that his words or actions hurt. If he does not mind, go to the family to a psychologist.
Do not expect that it will take place and the husband himself will change. You can pretend that nothing is happening, but the problem will not disappear and will not resolve. If he constantly criticizes her husband, she tries to be even better, helpfulness only convince him that he is doing everything right.
Ask yourself questions. How you make it, the husband began to treat you well? You can no longer look after themselves? Or give up their interests for the sake of it? Do you value and enjoy yourself? As you enjoy yourself?
Respect yourself. Start with what you need to change you, not her husband. For you are the way you allow others to treat. Take care of yourself, take care of yourself, give yourself positive emotions.
Refer to a psychologist. It will help to restore self-esteem and support in the difficult moments.
Take a look at her husband's actions today. You can mentally return to the good times, when you had the love and idyllic, but now it is not. If you have trouble with him, uncomfortable, you feel broken - it is a bell that all is not well in the family.
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