5 stereotypes about the relationship that we have imposed movies

If we look at art film and he is us "cling" - that we find ourselves under the influence of ideas and thoughts that he carries. For example, unconsciously (or consciously vice versa) are trying to repeat the patterns of behavior and thinking style of their favorite heroes. Although aware that the feature film are all very conditional - deep down hope that embody the fairy tale to life.

In very many films have romantic line. And these are the stereotypes about the relationship they invest in the viewer's head.

True love happens at a glance

You know those moments in the movie they saw each other, the camera takes a close-up, expressive eyes - and all at once it is clear that this is love. In life it does happen, of course, but as an exception.

Definitely do not need to be based in the selection of a partner on the fact whether you both struck sparks from the first meeting. When people are just beginning to know each other, they feel sympathy, passion, sometimes even antipathy - but only time will show whether it will grow into a true feeling of love. It happens that people understand who their other half, after several years of dating - and such unions end up being very strong.

"And then they will see me and be sorry ..."

And you'll be so beautiful and happy with the new cavalry and diamonds, and it will roll down through life and death is to regret that miss such a treasure. A curtain.

When a relationship ends, women like to amuse themselves with the thought that a man of this more regret. If this becomes the motivation to pursue a career or even a new hairstyle - and why not. But do not sit by the phone and wait - and when he will regret. Probably never, if you do not start to move on. After all, he is already moving, and you?

In the movie moments of mental anguish heroes captivate and capture us, but in the lives of people generally just live on. Make new friends, go to work, meet friends, and do not look longingly at the rainy window, and so on. And your old man, believe me, do not even realize that there must something to regret and passionately want to get back to you.

Love in my life there is only one

so it is in a beautiful romantic movies. And stereotypes about morality that carried past generations.

You cried a dozen times over the lost Jack in "Titanic" and thought that's how one brief meeting changed the life of Rose, she and 90 years remembers him. But here's Rose has lived a busy life, got married, had children and grandchildren, rather than 70 years suffered from the fact that love is something there is only one.

Each film - out of context slice of life heroes. When it was all over with "and they lived happily ever after '- it does not mean that in the continuation of a couple would not have fled a year later.

Someone could actually be one love in his life, someone - more. It is important not to forbid myself to love and follow your heart.

All "normal" women want marriage and children

Heroine of the film is divided into careerists and those who want to get married and children. Other options to live a life mass movie almost does not provide.

If a couple of centuries ago, marriage was a means of survival for the woman, and the desire to have children simply do not ask, but now it is free to live happily. No longer need to cultivate themselves assistants for plowing in the field, can be reliably protected, look for opportunities to realize themselves and live the way you want. Forget the stereotype of "two - it's not a family." No one has the right to indicate to you, they have children or not, to be a housewife or not to marry or not.

To find the beautiful and the rich man, you need to be a "gray mouse"

This idea was promoted many cult films, let's not point fingers. This is a great hook for spectators: to believe that the tale can be, even if you do not have the appearance of superstar. Such heroines like, because with them there is a certain advantage. Like, if we imagine such a man it found, then I will be a billionaire, no less.

It is clear that in life there are such cases, and the reverse. Neither bright appearance, nor a lot of money does not actually guarantee you happiness in relationships and life in general. Love, mutual support, respect for other people's interests and feelings, common goals, a common commitment to a healthy life and a healthy trust relationships - that's what really defines happiness as a couple. But wait for a miracle, is not doing anything and hoping that a handsome billionaire accidentally collide with you at the store and fell in love at once - a mistaken strategy.

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