The return to the fold often occurs due to divorce, family quarrels, housing problems or financial difficulties.
But is it really so bad if an adult lives with his parents? And can we do to live together several different generationspeaceful and comfortable?
I return to my parents have not only economic and social but also psychological reasons.For many it is the only place where you feel emotionally safe and comfortable. Especially if in childhood and teenage years, you have lived in harmony with their parents and have always felt their love and support. Such a happy youthful experience, if you can not move it to a new independent life, can cause of young people disappointment in the new partnership and bring them back, at least temporarily, under the parental wing.
You returned, but "in another river."And then perhaps the disappointment - both with one and with the other hand. Parents are happy to baby, but you may find that they now live with a sense of unplanned alien presence, even if they are tactfully not talk about it. Especially if the return is not only a failure on the personal front, but with the lack of professional success.
If you have returned to the fold, to develop new rules of the hostel.Divide the area, allocate responsibilities and share of financial participation.
Even if you have no income, you can help the parents something to cook, fix, connect online. It is important to realize that you do not go back to his home, and his parents' house. To behave as a responsible and adult and not a spoiled child or eternal student.
Personal space.Our apartments are not designed for this method of hostel where several generations live together. Especially when it comes to cohabitation of two couples under the same roof. This communal life is preventing sexual relations both pairs. Narrowness restricts the freedom of expression of feelings, making it impossible for the harmony of relationships.
Not to bury his personal life, Psihologi advised, no matter how harmonious is the relationship with the parents: "Six months of living together, but no more. This is enough to recover and heal the wounds. "
And be sure to ask aboutChildren need something to their parents?
