With all the richness of choice (we have more than seven billion on this planet) to find your soul mate can not please everyone. The number of attempts varies from zero to infinity, and relationships are created and decay at a breakneck pace.
"Grandma" formulas such as "listen to your heart", "should slip spark", "love - it's chemistry," "on the fate of no escape," of course, has not been canceled. And yet... One life, time flies fast. I would like more precise algorithms, recipes, rules. How to recognize their man among many others? How to find it on who will develop the perfect couple?
"Mama" sotsioniki Ausra Augustinavichute said: "A man does not need at all," Oh, love, "a form of sympathy such a loving, which are acceptable and convincing satisfy the psyche." In other words, each of us has a perfect couple, a man who will protect our weaknesses and strengths which need our personality.
Someone we definitely need as we have
Relationship complete psychological additions - the most optimal for the partnership. Such a partnership in which each gets exactly what he needs. These are the most comfortable relationship, and they almost do not need to adapt to one another, each remains itself.
Segregation of duties in such a relationship occurs naturally, and each pair performs in the a role which for it is more natural to give the opportunity to do for themselves feasible business. In such pairs conflicts are rare, the output of which is easy and painless. Partners fit together like two halves of a whole.
The paradox is that, having met such a person, it is not immediately possible to distinguish among others. This is due to the lack of internal stress, due to the fact that mutual understanding occurs immediately. This man seems to be simple and straightforward. So - uninteresting. This position is often characterized by extroverts. Introvert also thinks he's so cool... too good for me. I am unlikely to be able to please him.
As "see" and not pass duala (so it called in socionics psychological type most suitable for you)?
To begin with remember: Who are logic, ethics, sensory, intuity; rationals, irrationals; extroverts, introverts.
Let's start with the sensations. While talking to dualom initially, most likely you will not experience much comfort. Everything is ordinary and special emotions causes. Dual is perceived as a natural part of your life. And so meaningless nothing. Understanding how this person is needed and important, it comes only after parting with him. That's when there are sharp and experiences, and to realize that the presence of this person calms down, giving a sense of security.
Do not miss your mate will enable the development and use of the rules of the ideal couple, which is based on the definition of duality socionic psycho. To use it, you first need to determine your psycho.
Rule ideal pair includes concurrent execution of 4 principles.
Principle 1. There is always an introvert extrovert dual. In the introvert - extrovert. Agree to survive is a prerequisite.
Principle 2. At RATIONAL RATIONAL is always dual. In irrationals - irrationals. Generally, rationality / irrationality - the "irreconcilable" scale of our psyche. Adjust a rational irrationals extremely difficult.
Principle 3. Logic (rational by definition) always dual ethics. Sensory (irrational by definition) always dual Intuit. And vice versa.
Principle 4. Douala always belong to the same quadra.
All these principles are mandatory and simultaneous conditions, using which we obtain 8 dual pairs Socion.
To be continued
