"Toxic" words and phrases hurt, so can poison and kill even the strongest relationship.
Read these 13 phrases and never tell them their loved ones. As if annoyed and offended you are. Never. Otherwise, everything will fall apart, and if not, it will not be the same again.
"Why can not you be like ..."
Dima as a successful, brilliant Vadik or podkachenny joker Roman... Such a list, the dubbed favorite, is unsafe - it is a slap of his self-esteem. men do not forgive such strikes. And then, because you are imperfect too. Your partner may get a "lesson" to compare you with a young lapwing from your office, an excellent hostess and neighbor Masha, or, for example, with burning beauty Penelope Cruz.
"You're acting like your father!"
Children love their parents any, so they are arranged. Even if between your favorite and his father were at odds - is still only their territory. You can voice this sentence only if you want to praise your man.
"How do you like my FORMER ..."
Also, a low blow, because the "former" for a number of serious missteps or slips already removed from the list as the nekudyshnaya. If you compare with such a person, this is a hint that you are also contenders to take off from the game.
"Are you the smartest HERE ?!"
If not said in jest, it turns out very insulting as if you dropped below the waterline. As your opinion.
"If I had not, you'd be ..."
And that would be, in fact, "you'd be?" After such a toxic phrase partner can seriously think that next to other, less grumpy and arrogant man, he may feel more comfortable.
"YES TO NEED YOU ..."
Devalues phrase is very deep and painful wounds, at the same time motivating hurt to look for another person to whom it will be really valuable and needed. Or just to get away from the source of humiliation.
"You're always forget BUY / ASK / endure ..."
The conflict may lie in anything important words "Forever ...", "Never" and "You always ..." plus the intonation with which they are pronounced. Strife and accusing tone forced to defend a partner or get away from the tiring attack far away.
"If you behave normally, I would not scream YOU!"
Excellent! Firstly, you shift the responsibility for their incontinence, and secondly, using the best catalyst for the scandal - the person in charge of its inadequacy.
"I do not owe you be accountable!"
Of course, each of us has the right to autonomy in decision-making, and make excuses - basically losing option by default. However, such a phrase - a hidden message of which can be transferred from female to male as "Do you even I do not important as your score, your opinion"
"Yes, what out of you ..."
Husband, father, football player, manager, specialist... What danger is hidden in this phrase? Husband, father, athlete, lover, boss, musician, etc. - a role which man identifies himself. And if you "drop" at least one hypostasis, you humiliate a person, in principle, and very, very painful to hurt his feelings.
"HOW CAN YOU experiencing because of nonsense?"
When we discount the experiences of the partner - then we take the first step towards separation. Each (and favorite) is known in trouble. If you do not take seriously the feelings of the partner, then do not cherish the relationship.
"Do what you want, I do not care"
Indifference to our senses - the one "gotcha" that the hardest stumble. Alas, this is the painful admission that the hardest to forgive. After all, if he does not care, nothing can be done... Do not rush this phrase, as if too tired or angry, it is best to count to 10, take a deep breath and say, "Let's talk about it tomorrow."
"So maybe we even broke up?"
Perhaps the most dangerous phrase, which for some reason are not afraid to throw a lot of couples in the interest of manipulation and checking each other: how to behave in a partner? How much he appreciates me and our relationship? What he has to say in response, as will be justified? And if a partner will be decided and say firmly, "Come"? What then? Think about it... keep silent. Unless, of course, you the relationship road.
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