They say to their parents first children - the last doll and the first grandchild to grandparents - first children. Maybe in this amazing hidden truth of why children with grandmothers so relaxed and comfortable. And my grandmother very much want to protect the favorite grandchild of errors.
This grandmother has decided to share its unique experience with newly-born granddaughter and wrote her a letter. Wise and moving to tears ...
granddaughter letter
My dear, I could still write this letter to your mother 25 years ago... But I was 25 then most, and I I thought only about how to feed a family, as a time to take daughter to the nursery and not to miss lectures University. Your grandfather worked the night shift and could not help me, when your mother was crying all night because of the various ills.
Now I'm 50, and I have accumulated some experience, I want to share with you. I do not claim to know everything about life, but in the end, I'm your grandmother, and I want you to be happy. My advice is do not interfere.
Do not be afraid to cry. Tears - is a strong choice. I'm strong and do what I want. I want to cry, I want to laugh, I want to scatter socks throughout the apartment.
Do not be afraid to try new things. Do not think about age and what people will say. Take on the best of life, and no matter how crazy your desire.
Do not be afraid to fall. Ride a bike, swing, skating, rollerblading, and do not be afraid to fall. It will be painful, but you will learn, through this, to be fast and get up when I want to cry.
Do not be afraid to express their point of view. You do not have to keep quiet if you do not like something, or when you do not agree. Do not hide their opinion or for the sake of friendship or for love. If you do not hear or need to be loyal, then, well, to hell with it a friendship and love.
Do not be ashamed to ask for forgiveness. Only very strong girls know how to apologize and realize their mistakes, but I really want you to be grown such. It is difficult to say, "I'm sorry, I was wrong. How can we fix this? "But this must be learned, and then no one can beat you.
DO NOT BE AFRAID TO FALL IN LOVE.Love still comes to you. Rejoice that you have finally grown up.
DO NOT BE AFRAID OF THE FIRST KISS. Believe grandmother, it's delicious! Fear not, all women kissing is excellent - it's in our blood.
Do not be afraid to get married or vice versa NOT QUIT. When you grow up, no one will care what do you have on your finger a wedding ring or not. But if you thought that marriage and family life, try to find "their" man for you, and then everything will turn out. Even socks scattered everywhere will not irritate. But will anyone have a massage in the evening or with whom walk the dog.
Do not be afraid to give birth. I will not lie, it hurts. But it's the most beautiful thing that can happen in the life of any woman.
Do not be afraid of divorce.In life anything can happen. The main thing - do not despair and do not turn a blind confidence. Divorce - it's not the end of life. This is the beginning of something new, and likely to be more interesting.
DO NOT BE AFRAID OF SOLITUDE. Sometimes, to be alone - this is useful. They can even enjoy. But how long this will be - I know our little family.
Do not be afraid to grow old. With age, you start to appreciate life and love ones. And then, perhaps, you will write a letter to his grandchildren.
DO NOT BE AFRAID TO LOSE CLOSE. I have long doubted is it worth to you to write. However, losses are inevitable. Close go - but love does not disappear ...
Dare to be strange.Your grandmother is not afraid!
I love you, your grandmother.
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