Alas, the formula of love has not yet come up with the perfect relationship also exists: all normal families own "Chemistry": full of life, rage from time to time, quarrels, which help to understand each other's needs and become closer. If... Of course, after a "roller coaster" quarrels draw conclusions, and not blame each other's imperfections.
This is one of the patterns that are characteristic of the happy couples. In the list below, 8 "pitfalls" that people in happy tandems try to avoid.
1. Do not compare yourself with others
Compare yourself, your partner or alliance - a highly business futile and divorced from reality. Worst of all, that such a comparison "with a bang" undermines confidence, and whether our union is so good?
2. Do not complain about the attitude to relatives and friends
Involving even close to other people in their personal lives, there is a risk of losing the trust of a loved one, and only enforces a conflict that has matured.
3. Do not deceive one another in financial matters
Money - a very strong energy with which it is not necessary to play in the giveaway. Flavored lies this energy becomes destructive.
4. Do not try to read each other's minds
Even if people have long together, they do not believe that the right to take the decision for a partner because they know exactly what they want.
5. Do not start a conversation at the wrong time
Corti to share their experiences and feelings - ask a loved one, whether he had time to eat and... desire to listen.
6. Do not follow the advice of romantic movies
To compare their lives with what is happening on the screen as to believe that the photos of stars in the magazines are not touched Photoshop.
7. Do not expect that to be a pair of easy
Long-term relationship - it is painstaking work of the mind, body and soul, which requires constant investment. Therefore, loving people in long-term relationships say to each other words of love, make gifts and try to surprise.
8. Do not take themselves too seriously
Life is full of ups and downs, and we are real people with their weaknesses and quirks over whom should learn to joke and sneer. It makes us closer, and energizes the Union, which magically attracts us to each other.
