Romantic or tyrant: 5 bells that your man abyuzer

None of the toxic relationship did not begin with the humiliation, psychological abuse and battering at once. Moreover, not all abyuzery beat their victims. They are able to poison the life and destroy the self-esteem without battering. How to recognize the tyrant of the first "bell"?

He speaks badly of your surroundings

Abyuzery will say that the best friend you jealous mother does not love you, and sister all hung around his neck. He assures his woman, that your environment is not worthy of you. The woman begins to believe in it and restricts social contacts. Thus, falling into the trap of abyuzera that she did not have the support on the side.

He's trying to control you

From clothing, finance, and ending time of arrival home. If a woman earns on itself, abyuzer will take a salary, telling it - spender and his money will be more whole. Then he asks to leave work, the victim was in his financial power. Such male invalidates

dreams and plans favorite, under the guise of concern for her.

He blames you

The future begins abyuzer blame the victim in all of their troubles. Bad mood he - just the dinner was not too warm. He shouted at his beloved? Nothing to bring! The victim is gradually beginning to be responsible for themselves, children, and even homely atmosphere for the success of the second half.

He is insulting jokes

His jokes are not caused by a smile and tears. And he makes sarcastic remarks about what you are "under-woman." Then he apologizes and says that you have understood it correctly and you have no sense of humor. So he tries to quietly plant a girl on the model of relations "carrot and stick". Gradually, the "stick" will be more and stick - "smaller."

He assures you that no one ever will love you so

Even if you feel that the relationship brings more pain than pleasure, abyuzer will tell you that he loves you. And to remind you that no one has ever so much you will not like. Then he starts talking, you do not need this to anyone but him.

What to do?

If you feel that you are starting to fall into the trap abyuzera, you need as quickly as possible to break relations. Because they will bring suffering, destroy the self-esteem of women and get out of them, then it will be even harder.

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