All women know what is everyday worries. As for the men? Often we hear from the representatives of the stronger sex like they are tired, and they want to relax. His wife, meanwhile, after the working day, must cook food, and wash poubirat.
How can you including men in household chores and trouble? Consider the example of four ways men types.
for sluts
This type of men simply do not pay attention to the mess, and do not care about the dust and dirt that may collect in the house. For him, what is surprising is that his wife is always angry because small contamination in the home.
With such a man you need to speak briefly and clearly, giving him specific instructions: "Wipe your table cloth lying on the sink in the kitchen ...". It is not necessary to explain slut, what order and why it is so important. He needs to understand that without it you can not handle.
To tired to work
A husband does not mind helping, but hard day at work tired him greatly. It does not matter that his wife, too tired after work.
Then proceed as practical: it is necessary to arrange a general cleaning at the weekend. In such a situation it would be difficult to hide behind her husband work. What about everyday life, it is best to evenly distribute chores, Explaining to her husband, that you too tired at work or spending time with children.
to brutal
With this type of men is difficult, because, in their opinion, home routine - this is purely a woman's business. He is confident, he is born in order to make money, and twist the bulb.
There will only trick. It should be as often as possible to point to his strengths. For example, ask to go for food, since you fragile and weak to carry heavy bags.
For mama sinighttimea
There is a type of men whose mothers took care of much, and then they have grown helpless.
With such a man should act subtly and gradually. At first, give him the simplest of tasks. For example, to remove from the table after dinner, or make the bed. You can then ask for more assistance.
General rules
1. Talk to the man directly, without hints. The husband could not guess itself that needs to be done around the house.
2. Do not criticize him. Any quibbles serving desire to help.
3. Distribute the pre-charge. For example, the contract for the weekend who will cook, and who is to wash the dishes.
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